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A very bleak find on Getty Images.<\/p><\/div>\n

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No sooner had I pressed \u201cComplete Purchase\u201d on four roundtrip tickets from New York\u2019s John F. Kennedy airport to Paris\u2019s Charles de Gaulle did I begin involuntarily envisioning the trip through a 16:9 aspect ratio. <\/p>\n

Captions appeared swiftly, as naturally as intrusive thoughts. My brain produced puns of its own accord, a vestige of my frontal lobe\u2019s formative years spent refracting my lived experience through the omnipresent perception of a digital audience.<\/p>\n

This is a pathetic admission, I know, but having owned and operated social media profiles since the 7th grade, I\u2019ve been neatly packaging my life for public consumption longer than not. This is a problem, of course, because a 5-inch screen is definitionally a limited lens through which to experience all that is unfolding around you\u2014but its legitimizing force can feel inescapable. (\u201cPics or it didn\u2019t happen<\/span><\/a>,\u201d as it were.)<\/p>\n

I remember this compulsion feeling especially strong when I was in college, a time when Instagram was at its relative peak (that is, pre-TikTok) and my self-esteem was at its relative low (that is, in a sorority at Alabama). Instagram was a platform where Cool Girl\u2122 personal brands were meticulously confected. This meant the first half hour of any social event featured an unspoken agreement amongst attendees that we shared a mutual goal: Obtain flattering photographic evidence we were there. The following 15 minutes saw a shift into the second phase, in which our attentions were singularly absorbed into the blue glow of our screens as we swiped, scrutinized, cropped, and captioned, retouching and revising a memory that was still currently underway. <\/p>\n

What\u2019s most alarming, in retrospect, is how reflexively we adopted this routine that would be utterly confounding to the vast majority of humans who lived before the year 2000. Today\u2019s coeds, who must also double as mini self-aggrandizing Scorseses given video\u2019s dominance in the online world, have it even worse, and they seem to know it: This unremarkable video<\/span><\/a> of the last day of school at Glendora High in 1999 has been viewed more than 4 million times, and its comments section is littered with young people pining for a phone-free youth that they\u2019ll never know. <\/p>\n

I imagine a lot of young people feel the way I did when I was in my teens and early twenties\u2014anxious to assemble my experiences into a cohesive online self, even if that meant mining my life for the raw materials necessary to do so.  <\/p>\n

It\u2019s probably no surprise, then, it\u2019s frequently reported that Gen Z prefers spending money on experiences over material possessions. They may have been \u201cborn into the digital world,\u201d one source declares<\/span><\/a>, \u201cbut are increasingly trying to find real-world experiences.\u201d As barely-not-Gen Z myself, I hear this high-minded sentiment\u2014look at the Zoomers; so wise and in-the-moment<\/em>\u2014and know better. Having been a teenage girl in Zuckerberg\u2019s America, I know that even experiences\u2014especially experiences!\u2014exist to be commodified and curated for digital clout points. <\/p>\n

And as earnestly as I mean these words, I realize the inherent irony that I am, technically, a capital-P, capital-C Professional Content Creator. I use Instagram as part of my work, and self-documentation is (literally) in the job description\u2014but the majority of it pertains to sharing ideas<\/em>, not my personal life (which carries with it its own host of complications).<\/p>\n

\u201cI kept struggling to decide whether to film it or just be present and enjoy it,\u201d my friend told me after a recent show we attended, in a simple but profound recognition that you cannot do both simultaneously. There\u2019s an innate tension between the two, as the former\u2014filming with the intent to \u201cpost\u201d\u2014requires adopting the perspective of an endless audience comprising everyone you\u2019ve ever met and then some people you haven\u2019t, while the latter is about forgetting an audience altogether. You can perform and externalize your life, or you can experience it. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s not merely the phone physically separating you from it, but the revisionist history that follows the documentation. Something that begins as whole and complex and human is flattened; cheapened into two-dimensionality. In that process, the original memory is irrevocably corrupted. Several<\/span><\/a> studies<\/span><\/a> in the last decade<\/span><\/a> indicate that the \u201clife\u201d that gets discarded in the sculpting process falls away more quickly from our memories, altering them. Psychology Today warns<\/span><\/a> that \u201csharing our personal experiences online may produce a narrow version of our life stories.\u201d<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s not just our memories in the future that stand to suffer\u2014it\u2019s our experiences in the present, too. Researchers Barasch, Zauberman, and Diehl<\/span><\/a> found that \u201ctaking pictures with the intention to share them [on social media] reduces enjoyment of experiences\u201d because it \u201cincreases self-presentational concern during the experience, which can reduce enjoyment directly, as well as indirectly by lowering engagement with the experience.\u201d<\/p>\n

In that sense, maybe social media encourages us to buy experiences as though they are possessions<\/em>\u2014digital trinkets with which we\u2019ll adorn our algorithmic front yards and, in the process, sell our claim to our own memories for the low, low price of \u201cfree\u201d (unless, of course, it\u2019s #sponsored). Paradoxically, the more special and sacred the moment, the more we feel compelled to document and share it; to take ourselves out of it in order to give it away. <\/p>\n

Maybe this is hard to accept because the prevalence of the alternative sentiment is so powerful: \u201cIf I spent all this money on XYZ, I better<\/em> get some content out of it!\u201d But if we\u2019re not careful, the experience becomes just another commodity; beside the point, rather than the point itself. What a #waste!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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