https://moneywithkatie.com/ Mon, 29 Dec 2025 17:13:55 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.5 Copilot Money Review: A Budgeting App that Finally Gets it Right? [Updated for 2026] https://moneywithkatie.com/copilot-review-a-budgeting-app-that-finally-gets-it-right/ Wed, 24 Dec 2025 15:56:47 +0000 https://moneywithkatie.com/copilot-review-a-budgeting-app-that-finally-gets-it-right/ Before I was a person with way too many opinions about personal finance, I worked professionally in user experience strategy, design, and writing—a field that I’ve joked saw me ascend the ranks to Associate Manager of Turning That One Button Blue So More People Would Click It. Why am I telling you this? Because when […]

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Before I was a person with way too many opinions about personal finance, I worked professionally in user experience strategy, design, and writing—a field that I’ve joked saw me ascend the ranks to Associate Manager of Turning That One Button Blue So More People Would Click It. Why am I telling you this? Because when an app has a really stellar UI, I get jazzed.

For the first several years of my financial journey, I used Intuit’s clunky-and-now-defunct (but, crucially, free!) budgeting software Mint.

Copilot Money vs. Mint

While I was always a Mint purist (“And if it doesn’t work for you, you’re just not trying hard enough!” I’d say when people would tell me it just wasn’t working), the more my recommendation was met with hesitancy, the more I felt compelled to find a solution for budgeting that would do for spending what Betterment did for investing. I was on the hunt.

My friend Richard is a quintessential Silicon Valley tech buff (a 2x start-up founder, no less), and when I told him about Money with Katie, the first thing he said was: “Cool! Have you ever heard about Copilot? All my friends love it. The UI is fantastic—one of the founders was a software engineer at Google.”

I downloaded it so quickly, my App Store almost crashed. Then I saw it: the price.

“Aw, man. This costs money? Shit. Never mind.”

But I noticed the demo mode, and it was enough to pique my interest. I played around with the dummy data and immediately felt envious. Then, a few months passed, and curiosity finally got the best of me. I didn’t want Copilot Money to be the one that got away.

Now, five years later, I’m especially glad I didn’t let my cheapness get the best of me. Not to brag, but I’ve categorized 7,121 transactions (more on that below) since I began using Copilot Money in 2020:

And, as longtime budget freaks will know, Intuit shuttered Mint at the end of 2023.


How to budget, generally

While it may be obvious, I want to make sure we’re on the same page here: I don’t use the budgeting app to decide what my budget should be (though Copilot Money will analyze your spending and give you accurate estimates for each category, including recommendations about how you should reallocate funds based on your actual behavior).

I used my Wealth Planner to make my spending and investing plan for the year, and then simply create identical groups and subcategories in Copilot Money so the app will automatically track my every transaction. (Doing this manually would be nightmarish, as I have a metric shit-ton of credit cards and accounts, as pictured below.)

You could definitely create and manage your budget all in one place using Copilot Money, but I like to have my own records as well. At the end of the month, I record the category totals in my Wealth Planner for accountability and record-keeping. The Wealth Planner is built to give you end-of-month and end-of-year summaries, because data is sexy and makes you rich. Obviously.

The system, when working together, might look something like this. On the left, you’ll see my high-level goals for food spending in my big financial plan in the Wealth Planner, and on the right, you’ll see every restaurant transaction being captured.


A Quick Guide to Copilot Money Transactions

The software is very smart and can generally tell with ease what a transaction is—whether it’s a regular expense, income, an internal transfer (like when your checking account pays off your credit card bill; that’s money that’s already been accounted for as ‘spent’ by the credit card transactions), or a recurring bill.

  • T” — If you see a little “T” inside a square next to the transaction, that was an “Internal Transfer.” You moved money from one account to another.
  • I” — Income. This is interest earned, income earned, or else other money that came in that the software recognizes as net-new.
  • R” — Recurring bill (more on how to set those up below).

You can also Exclude purchases from being counted, which I do with business expenses. (Just tap the transaction itself, which will open a little drawer where you can see details—tap the Category, and on the far left, you’ll see “Exclude” as an option. If you choose that, it’ll vanish. If only actual spending were that easy.)

How to Set Up Your Copilot Money App

I had heard Copilot Money was really “smart”; that it was a budgeting app that understood real life.

But I have to admit, when I first started syncing all of my accounts (which, by the way, were all available in the app with the exception of my obscure HSA fund), I was a little overwhelmed. Months of unrefined data poured in, and I had a brief moment of panic: As someone who checked, categorized, and combed through her Mint data multiple times a day, seeing the last year of my life begin to populate willy-nilly in the app freaked me out and I almost aborted the mission.

I’m so glad I didn’t.

The first thing that I had to do (after syncing my accounts) was begin correcting or approving Copilot’s estimates. Most of them were freakishly spot-on, but some of them required additional tweaking on my part. I noticed that normally happened for categories where I paid for something and then got reimbursed for someone else’s half (think utilities, groceries, rent, etc.). The estimate would guess double my actual out-of-pocket cost because the transactions themselves were twice as big.

Because I had already built my overall spending plan into my Wealth Planner, setting it up in Copilot was as easy as adding new spending Categories (and grouping them). Here’s what some of mine look like now after many iterations, as of December 2025:

Copilot Money’s Venmo Integration

The good news? If you’re someone who gets reimbursed via apps like Venmo a lot, you can connect your Venmo account so transaction names and amounts will populate like they would in any other account. (Here are some FAQs about how the Venmo integration works; the TL;DR is that you set up email forwarding for Venmo receipts within the Copilot app and that’s how it pulls the data in.)

Recurring Transactions

Another nice feature is “Recurring Transactions,” which analyzes your data to determine (a) what your recurring charges are and (b) when they happen. Then, it builds it into your spending already at the beginning of the month as if the money has already been spent—that way you don’t go on your merry way through your month thinking you’re hella under-budget only to be surprised by your $160 electric bill on the 21st and blow your own lead.

Your Recurring charges live in their own section of the app, so you can keep track of what’s already been paid and what’s still remaining each month.

While setting the actual budget amounts and making sure all the Recurring charges took a little time (probably about half an hour), I’ve been really impressed at how easy it’s been to keep up with and how little ongoing effort it takes. Each Recurring Transaction gets marked with a little “R” in the app. The only Recurring Transaction I use currently is for my rent payment, which happens on the 1st of the month:


Something silly that I’ll admit I loved about Copilot Money: Personalization

You can change category names, colors, and emojis really easily. And while it’s silly to admit, I really liked that aspect of the personalization. Everything works the way you expect it to: Want to change something? Just tap it. Options pop up. It’s not hard to operate, which is crucial for an app that facilitates something as painful for some as budgeting. There’s a level of whimsy to the product and nice haptic feedback (when you tap something, you get a gentle jolt of recognition) that makes regular use of this app a joy.

Why does this silly little thing matter? For the vast majority of us normies who don’t enjoy playing CPA for ourselves on a daily basis, anything that removes friction between you and the act of money management is valuable. Once you play around with the app for a few days and practice categorizing, you’ll see what I mean.


After You’ve Set Up Your Copilot Money App

Understanding the Tabs You Swipe Between

I quickly got to know the major sections of the app because they make really good use of all the real estate. You can move them around based on what you use most often, and my lineup is currently:

  • Cash flow, where you’ll see your net income for the year (super addictive to check, if you’re a psycho like me), which you can easily compare to years prior
  • Dashboard, which I’d consider the homebase, where you can see a visual for your spending month-to-date, your budget overview (overages are highlighted here), upcoming recurring payments, and income to date — this is where all new transactions that need to be reviewed will appear, so you’ll probably spend most of your time there
  • Categories, which is where your budget categories are listed and the “Spent” amount is tracked against the budgeted amount
  • Accounts, where you’ll see all your synced accounts and your assets and debt — this is also where you’ll see your net worth at a bird’s eye view
  • Investments, where you’ll see your investment holdings by ticker — the cool thing about the “holdings” section of the Investments tab is that if you own the same security across five accounts, it’ll aggregate your total equity here (pictured below)
  • Transactions, where it tracks each and every transaction in a simple ledger
  • Recurrings, which we’ve already discussed
  • Goals, which is actually a feature I haven’t personally used much because my savings goals are automated in my Wealth Planner and I don’t really think about them anymore

And because you pay for Copilot Money, they don’t have to advertise to you—so every section of their app is actually useful and “real,” with no noise from sponsors or ads.


How to Use Copilot Money in an Ongoing Way: iOS, MacOS, iPadOS, and Web

I might be a unique case study since I f***ing love tracking my spending, but I use Copilot like it’s Instagram now. I’m in that shit constantly. I checked my screen time report, and it’s consistently clocking in as one of my top 5. What can I say? I told you I liked data!

When you open the app, it pulls up the dashboard and highlights transactions that have happened since you last logged in, organized by day. You can click “Mark as Reviewed” to let the app know you’ve signed off on them. It’s pretty slick. I’d guess that about 20% of the time, I have to recategorize the transaction, but that takes all of 8 seconds to click the category and select a new one.

Copilot Money is available on…

  • iPhone (where I use it most)
  • iPad
  • Mac (if I’m sitting down to update my Wealth Planner at the end of the month, I’ll usually use the desktop app since it’s bigger and you can see more at once)
  • And, recently, web!

That’s something I appreciate about their team: They push new features thoughtfully, and when I get a notification something new is coming, I know they’re going to overdeliver.

Smart-Rebalancing of Your Budget: Why Copilot Money is Good for Beginners & People New to Budgeting

Let’s say you’re relatively new to the magical world of personal finance and you’re still getting your arms around what your typical spending looks like. The Rebalancing feature essentially uses your actual behavior to determine the most optimal way to shift your budgets, but without changing the total amount spent. It reallocates the dollars to the categories where you’re actually spending money, which improves accuracy over time.

To have Copilot Money rebalance for you, just tap the little magic wand icon in the lower righthand corner of the “Categories” tab, and you’ll see what it suggests based on your spending that month:

Notifications

I’m a freak about notifications most of the time (I turn most of them off), but with banking apps, I’m really paranoid ever since my identity was stolen in 2019. Copilot’s notifications will alert you to any suspected fraud activity right away. I went ahead and gave them full permission to send me whatever they wanted. Blow me up, Copilot. Give me your worst.

It was a “green checkmark” spree as I went through my notifications settings, and I’ve been pleasantly surprised at how respectful the notifications are—I actually don’t feel like I’m getting blown up at all. I tried to go back in my Notification Center to screenshot a sampling, and there weren’t any there…because I’ve clicked on every single one. Clearly, even in the fugue state in which I typically use my phone, I’m entranced enough with the notifications that I engage with them.

Usually, they pertain to spending updates, categorizing new transactions, or letting you know you got #paid.


Is Copilot Money Worth the Cost?

All right, people. Back to the elephant in the room. The original reason I was almost #out on Copilot Money was because it costs money. It’s $13 per month (or, as college Katie would say, two burrito bowls) if you subscribe monthly, or $7.92 per month if you subscribe for the year upfront.

Because I’m a #moneyblogger, I decided upfront it was market research (and therefore a #BusinessExpense! Thanks, IRS). But after using it, I wholeheartedly believe it’s worth the expense, especially if it finally gets you to interact with your spending and track your budgets on a regular basis.

Try Copilot Money for free—use the code KATIE2M at checkout to extend your free trial to two full months, so you can take it for a true test run, free of charge.


Copilot Money has been a sponsor of the Money with Katie newsletter in the past. They had no input in this particular blog post or the opinions expressed herein.

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End-of-Year Letter from Katie https://moneywithkatie.com/essays/end-of-year-letter-from-katie/ Tue, 09 Dec 2025 22:24:29 +0000 https://moneywithkatie.com/?post_type=essays&p=2662 I’ve had this letter planned since the first quarter of 2025, but now that it’s time to write it, I have no idea how to do so without going blind from gazing too intently at my own navel. (Nevertheless, she persisted.) At the start of this year, I color-coded a blank editorial calendar. Every empty […]

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I’ve had this letter planned since the first quarter of 2025, but now that it’s time to write it, I have no idea how to do so without going blind from gazing too intently at my own navel. (Nevertheless, she persisted.) At the start of this year, I color-coded a blank editorial calendar. Every empty green cell represented an idea I’d need to bring to life in audio or print.

Sometime following the sugar crash of book publication in late June, I slammed into a wall of fatigue. One Sunday afternoon when I was trying (and failing) to write that week’s piece, my frustration spit me out onto the sidewalk surrounding my building, which I paced for the next hour, panicking about the many remaining green cells and few remaining ideas with which to fill them. Moments like those—when empty, slender rectangles glared blankly from the screen—tempted me to abandon my self-imposed publishing goals, always dangling some material regurgitation plan (and related justification) for coasting through the end of the year with less effort. 

The barrier to such an approach was that the idea of producing something just for the sake of producing it felt more unbearable than fatigue; worse than pointless. By the time I was crossing the threshold of my apartment again that Sunday night, I had decided that clumsily forging ahead was the only option that would allow me to write this end-of-year letter with a sense of accomplishment. Late into that evening, I wrote “That Funny Feeling.” 

I find myself wanting to thank you, like this is some sort of goodbye speech. Of course it isn’t; after I regain ownership of Money with Katie on January 1, you will continue to receive this newsletter as usual on the first Wednesday of 2026 (although it will no longer come from a Morning Brew email address, and will probably look a little different). Regardless, this remains, in so many ways, the end of an era that changed my life. 

Four Decembers ago—when I was approximately two years into self-publishing impassioned screeds about tax planning on my Squarespace website—I made a choice that felt both obvious and risky. Obvious, in that I knew selling my business to a successful media company for a guaranteed income and healthcare was the golden goose I should cage before it wised up and flew south for the winter, but risky in that it would be a dismissal of the altogether different career in UX writing I had just spent the last several years carefully stitching together. My reality at that moment was that there’d be no going back, and it was the sound of doors to other paths clicking shut around me that scored my quiet moments of doubt. (I was right about the “no going back” part, though not in the way I thought.) 

On some level, I always suspected building my home within someone else’s mansion was always going to be a long and critical—but ultimately temporary—development strategy. Working on Diabolical Lies (my other podcast, owned by Mouthy Media, which I cofounded in mid-2024) was an undeniable reminder of how addictive it is to build something from scratch with full autonomy. It’s the same compulsion that made the first 20 months of Money with Katie so all-consuming and romantic. This year I finally accepted that the border collie tail-chasing in my mind is a permanent resident, who, without anything to chew on, is liable to start gnawing the furniture. With the big change looming closer, I’ve had a hard time sleeping the last few weeks. 

Consciously, I feel hyperengaged and overprepared, like the first day of school is around the corner and mom already sprung for the jumbo pack of G-2 pens. Subconsciously, however, the photonegative of this thrill is deep uncertainty. My body began rebelling in weird ways this summer, shortly after that Sunday afternoon spent wearing the sidewalks thin. My digestive system forgot how to process food. A week-long migraine left me feeling so disoriented that I eventually shuttled myself to the emergency room, where I had a bad reaction to an antipsychotic drug that induced an agonizing restlessness and left me feeling trapped inside my body for hours. (Afterward, I learned this reaction is called akathisia, which can happen with dopamine blockers. My sister-in-law, an emergency room doctor, took one look at my discharge paperwork and said, “I always know when this is happening because the patient rips out their IVs and elopes from the ER.”) 

The experience introduced a fear of my own mind that emerged relentlessly over the following months. This past September, I remember sitting in a hotel room in New York City and staring out the window at the cramped skyscrapers across the street as an invisible tsunami of panic began descending. Outwardly, I researched hormonal shifts and began getting acupuncture. Privately, I started to wonder if the last five years were catching up with me, like I had mortgaged my ability and my body was finally calling in the loan.

The decision to stop producing The Money with Katie Show was, in that respect, an obvious one, which announced itself peacefully one afternoon while I did research for an interview. (I don’t remember the topic.) After four years and hundreds of episodes, I think most people would reach a point where they feel they’ve said what they wanted to say; asked the questions worth asking. The show’s numbers have never been better, and it feels gratifying to choose to leave a party while it’s still raging.

At some point around Thanksgiving when I took off three continuous days for the first time since March, the resultant empty cells of my schedule allowed me to notice a pattern in the way I was thinking about and discussing The Future. The Future was a galaxy far, far away where I would commence living my Real Life, while this—this life right now—was like an infinite night before vacation, full of anticipation and projection. It was easy to postpone big decisions, because those were the sort of thing you did in that special occasion of The Future, not in the liminal space of the now. Mostly, I wanted to avoid committing to anything that couldn’t be easily reversed, to prevent any doors from clicking shut. But for what occasion was I waiting? Once I noticed this was how I had been unconsciously orienting, I was horrified. When would this so-called Real Life begin? What if this destination, The Future, did not exist, and instead I was landlocked inside the only life in the solar system, the one I was already living? What then?

This way of relating to reality is not altogether different from the methodology and logic of financial independence (or, if you prefer, boilerplate retirement planning). Your working life is just the diligent dress rehearsal, week after week spent with that favored, amnesiac refrain of adulthood: “After this week, things will calm down.” I will enjoy my life later. I will live how I want to then. For all of 2025, I said, “After this year, things will calm down.” This is another way of saying, Later, when my real life begins, things will feel good.

The prospect of having a more open schedule promises both relief and unease. Relief because I really do want things to calm down; unease because what if, after they do, things do not “feel good?” For me, this is less about feeling good and more about craft. All along, my thesis has been this: With more time, the caliber of my work will improve. It will be better. I will be better. The fear, then, is downstream of finally confronting the outcome of that closely held hypothesis. In some ways, it’s easier not to run the experiment at all: to keep the mastery or contentment or fulfillment preserved in the amber of “someday” means never needing to find out if your theory is nothing more than a comforting mirage. The unrealized promise held at arm’s length is Schrödinger’s life change, representing another lever you could pull, a ready-made explanation for why you are not yet the person you hoped to be. The potential of an untested hypothesis is preferable by far to a negative result.

I can recall only one other time when I felt this same apprehension: four Decembers ago, when my previously cherished hypothesis—if I were doing this full-time and not as a side hustle, it would work—was about to be put to the test. If it failed, I’d be something worse than a failure: a fool in search of a new theory. But because of you, dedicated readers who lend me your attention week after week, gratitude is in order. Your generosity is the reason why I’ve become courageous enough to run the experiment anew. Thank you.

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Proof of Work https://moneywithkatie.com/essays/proof-of-work/ Tue, 25 Nov 2025 21:04:35 +0000 https://moneywithkatie.com/?post_type=essays&p=2654 I woke up Saturday morning eager to clean my apartment.  My excitement surprised me. Six months earlier, I had resigned myself to the idea that a smaller space meant cleaning professionals were no longer necessary (yet another cost-efficient benefit of downsizing), the way you might resign yourself to getting up early for the gym or […]

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I woke up Saturday morning eager to clean my apartment. 

My excitement surprised me. Six months earlier, I had resigned myself to the idea that a smaller space meant cleaning professionals were no longer necessary (yet another cost-efficient benefit of downsizing), the way you might resign yourself to getting up early for the gym or eating leftovers. But lately, slowly and methodically cleaning the apartment has become something of a weekend ritual; a dedicated morning hour for gliding from one physical task to the next, each producing its own satisfying, visible progress in the form of unrumpled clean sheets or a sink free of dried toothpaste.

In most other areas of my life, my effort and conscious attention exist in abstract spaces no more real than the Town Center of Club Penguin—the cells of a spreadsheet where my resources are carefully transcribed and monitored, the orchestra of 0s and 1s inside my phone composing a song for my engagement patterns, the cacophony between my ears that I translate into colorful blocks like hard candies in a Google Calendar. The truer this becomes, the more I gravitate to the fleshly thrill of tasks that generate immediate tangible evidence of their completion. 

Just another day in the office.

Sometimes when the idea of cleaning presents itself as an unlikely respite, I think about something I learned a few years ago about the fundamental human desire to “act upon the world.” This begins in infancy, when the new human learns that their actions create physical feedback: When I kick my foot, this toy moves, or, When I cry, my caregiver reacts to me. In that respect, our sense of agency is learned and sustained through our bodies, not abstract reasoning. And bodies, as most of us have learned the hard way, have a way of not just experiencing physical reality, but enforcing it. 

Spending too much time in the ether of the abstract sometimes has the unintended effect of fooling the agent into believing that the physical is as easily controllable as the digital. It’s interesting to observe the mind try to bridge this gap. Late last week, my mom told me that my 95-year-old great uncle had been struggling with some strange symptoms and, within a matter of days, had been moved into hospice. When the health of someone in their nineties begins failing, it feels wrong to describe this deterioration as “sudden,” as failing is what all bodies do eventually, particularly those fortunate enough to approach their centennial. Still, when I finally saw the text preview appear in my messages that he had passed away, I left the text unread for hours, the information theoretically suspended beside a bright blue dot. Maybe if I didn’t open this message, the reasoning went, I could delay the physical reality of its contents, holding it instead in this liminal space where data, unlike bodies, can live forever. 

Another example: Scrolling Instagram the other day, I caught a Story update from a woman who was a close friend in college. We sported nearly the same name—Katie G.—and our relationship was the site for some of my more responsible choices, like drinking enough water and exercising every morning. Where my other friends applied the storied “work hard, play hard” mentality (the former to their medical or law school applications, the latter to their alcohol consumption), Other Katie G. clocked a 10 PM bedtime on Friday nights and spoke often about her desire to have a family of her own. 

The update was that she was beginning the first of 12 rounds of chemotherapy on her daughter’s first birthday. I stared at the word “chemo,” finding it totally illegible next to the news of her child turning one, a glitch. How, I wondered, could Other Katie G. have cancer? Her profile offered no other evidence of her diagnosis—which, bizarrely, comforted me, as if this made it less real—just pictures of the doughy biscuit of a baby she wanted so badly.

It was Other Katie G. I thought about when I read this weekend’s viral New Yorker essay written by Tatiana Schlossberg, Caroline Kennedy’s daughter and JFK’s granddaughter, about being diagnosed with terminal leukemia at 34 in the days following the birth of her second child. Much like I just did with emphasizing Other Katie’s healthy choices—as if to say, This is all some horrible mistake; she completed all her to-do lists and responded to all her emails; you don’t understand, she woke up early on weekends and cleaned her apartment—Schlossberg likewise emphasizes her apparent health in the months leading up to her diagnosis, how she could run and swim and ski for miles. The article gave me the intense desire to close the tab, to remove this possibility from my own body by way of removing it from my screen, to not allow myself to imagine even for a moment how such a revelation would, instantly, transform my priorities and stressors to dust, and what that might say about my priorities and stressors. 

As someone on the Millennial–Gen Z cusp, I read a lot about my cohort in the news—that we, in a break from thousands of generations that preceded us, want special and unique things like flexible work and houses and socialism and—who can forget this one—“experiences.” But the millennials I read about online bear very little resemblance to the young people I meet in the physical realm, who all seem to want more or less the same thing: to act upon the world, and preferably in a way that matters. Recently, Gen Z economics wunderkind Kyla Scanlon visited nine cities as part of an In This Economy? road show and pointed out in her post-game analysis that a surprising number of AI-related conversations with experts revolved less around reskilling or upskilling than purpose and meaning and, I assume, how to find those things in a world with—hypothetically, eventually, theoretically—very little abstract knowledge work. “The students were amazing,” Scanlon writes of her visit to a Florida college. “Their questions were practical: How do we afford housing? How do we navigate AI? How do we find meaning in work that might not exist in 10 years?”

My generation is particularly susceptible to the siren song of “affordability politics,” this news coverage notes, because they feel they cannot afford the lives they imagined for themselves, which is another way of saying they cannot access the things they need to act on the world in the ways they want to. The Wall Street Journal, for example, published a piece about Trump and Mamdani’s unexpectedly warm Oval Office meeting, pointing out the obvious: Both of these very different, very popular politicians campaigned on the cost of living, this thing that the proles won’t stop whining about. The article declares that the so-called affordability crisis is, among other things, not real, and even if it were real, it would not be a problem that’s solvable. (Beside the story, another piece asked a question which was, evidently, deemed solvable: “Is $200 Million the New $100 Million in Luxury Real Estate?”)

This is why you don’t let billionaires run media companies. 

Young people, like all people, seek meaning in different ways (starting or not starting a family, pursuing one career or vocation over another, developing an arsenal of hobbies) and many even seem to face similar challenges (an absence of time that someone else has not already bought and paid for, resource scarcity, self-esteem battered by the beauty or masculinity industrial complexes), but I am always struck by the uniformity in the texture of their desires. An “affordability crisis” is merely the name we’ve given to the phenomenon where people feel blocked, through some economic force real or perceived, from pursuing that which gives their lives meaning. (The opposite phenomenon, an extreme nihilism that’s certain everything is meaningless and looks to violently enforce that view on others, received a lot of attention earlier this fall when “groypers” were caught in the discourse’s high beams, squinting and unprepared.) 

The sensory experience of the affordability crisis is the frustration of action stifled before it has a chance to produce its desired consequence—when studying and graduating means loans but no disposable income, when a job means a paycheck but no career advancement, when saving means sacrifice but no promise of reward, when the decision to grow a family means not just profound responsibility but unrelenting financial pressure. An economy where you kick your leg but the toy does not move or you cry and the caregiver does not react. The affordability crisis is better understood as an agency crisis, and that’s as real as you or me. The moments, then, when something responds (the sink shines, the baby cries for the first time, the job offer comes through, the body heals) can feel like life itself is answering back—however briefly—that yes, you’re still here.

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The Last of the Old West https://moneywithkatie.com/essays/the-last-of-the-old-west/ Mon, 10 Nov 2025 06:00:00 +0000 https://moneywithkatie.com/?post_type=essays&p=2640 I spent a few days last week in Jackson Hole, Wyoming, to deliver a keynote called “Your Money, Our System: Collective Tools to Move the Needle” at an annual women’s conference. When I agreed to the presentation, I hadn’t realized that Teton County held the title of ‘greatest income disparity in the United States,’ a […]

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I spent a few days last week in Jackson Hole, Wyoming, to deliver a keynote called “Your Money, Our System: Collective Tools to Move the Needle” at an annual women’s conference. When I agreed to the presentation, I hadn’t realized that Teton County held the title of ‘greatest income disparity in the United States,’ a sad statistic that was recounted to me roughly every eight hours by a different smiling, wide-eyed resident. It is, to date, the most American place I have ever been—less for the way it embodies our ideals than for how it exposes them so plainly. 

The top 1% in Teton County earns 142.2x more than the bottom 99%, compared to the US’s overall differential of 26.3x. The average annual income of that top 1%? Hold onto your Stetson: $22,508,018. (In the Economic Policy Institute’s accounting, New York, New York comes in at #2, with a modest-by-comparison one-percenter income of $8,983,154.) These numbers are from 2015, preceding the pandemic-fueled billionaire infestation, so it’s likely more disparate now. Jackson is an “onshore offshore tax haven,” according to a jauntily scored Bloomberg video, referencing Wyoming’s 0% state income tax, 0% corporate income tax, 4% sales tax rate, and 0.55% effective property tax rate, one of the lowest in the country. (Wyoming ranks first in the Tax Foundation’s euphemistically named “2026 State Tax Competitiveness Index.”) 

Tax breaks aside, the attraction is obvious. Sometimes you go places where it’s hard to imagine how anyone ever got brave or deluded enough to attempt paving the first road or building the first home there, given the landscape. But Jackson, hemmed in on all sides by what I can only describe as patented Purple Mountain Majesty, makes it clear why you’d try. There’s a rugged romance to this town that it still embraces: A sign on Highway 22 welcoming visitors (and workers who cannot afford to live within town limits) from Idaho over the Teton Pass announces its mythos as “THE LAST OF THE OLD WEST.” (This perilous commute was disrupted for three weeks last June when the infrastructure failed and the road literally slid off the side of the mountain.) A fictionalized version of Jackson even appears in HBO’s Emmy Award-winning series The Last of Us, portrayed as singular in its ability to survive a zombie apocalypse as a relatively thriving, walled-off settlement, a testament to the American fantasy of self-sufficiency against even the ugliest of odds.  

Post-apocalypse American Western Utopia, per HBO.

Flying into the valley “can be brutal,” a friend warned me, because of the quick descent over the Tetons. Already a slightly nervous flyer, I stalked the r/ATC subreddit before my trip. Normally, it’s a digital watering hole where air traffic controllers congregate to discuss niche industry drama with specialized terminology I don’t recognize. But since the government shutdown began last month, the subreddit has been overrun with posts about working without pay and questions from other voyeuristic nervous flyers asking if the stress of working unpaid six-day weeks or picking up second jobs is going to make the public less safe. The response was—horrifyingly—mixed.

Bewildered Europeans occasionally comment to express pity (“In Germany,” one wrote, “it is illegal for the government to make people work without pay.”). When well-meaning outsiders urge them to refuse to work, a reliably beleaguered flood of comments reminds OP that, unlike being forced to work without pay, striking is illegal for federal workers. Once inside the terminal at JAC, I noticed a conspicuous absence of other commercial planes taking off down its single runway—only Cessnas and Gulfstreams and other tiny jets with presumably private owners.

The strange thing about the wealth disparity in Jackson, with its population just shy of 11,000 people sharing less than three square miles, is how unusually proximate it feels. I’ve never met so many regular people with close, personal connections to billionaires. I spent time with a ski instructor who works for the resort, paid somewhere in the neighborhood of $19 per hour. (I struck up a conversation by asking her about “dropping Corbet’s,” referring to a notoriously harrowing run called Corbet’s Couloir which begins with a near-90-degree vertical dropoff that Colorado transplants like me learn to discuss with reverence in the company of people who don’t do things like, for example, read r/ATC before flying.) She was in her early forties, with wild, curly blond hair that called to mind 2007 Taylor Swift, and it became quickly apparent that she was a favorite of the Jackson vacation-home class. She ticked through a few locations she’d traveled to with clients—Egypt, Alaska, the Maldives—sometimes for ski instruction, other times, I gathered, as a comped tag-along on their six-figure vacations, simply because she’s a great hang. (Can confirm.)

After the conference ended the second night, a group of us got dinner together at a restaurant that paired things like elk hash with $17 cocktails. After a story about how she had grown accustomed to tracking one client’s jet on FlightAware whenever the family was running late for their lesson, she told me she was about to lose her health insurance. “I’m on an ACA plan,” she said, by way of explanation. With the planned upcoming expiration of Affordable Care Act enhanced subsidies, an average premium hike of 114% will price some portion of the 24 million Americans enrolled in ACA plans out of healthcare.

For some, premiums will rise a lot more. That morning, I made an unlikely connection with the event photographer. He looked like the type of man I expected to see on the Denver season of Love Is Blind: shoulder-length brown hair, a flannel shirt, a flat-brimmed hat bearing the logo of a local brewery. He beelined for the book signing table in the theater lobby after my presentation ended, where I had decamped to decompress from an unusually tense question-and-answer session. “When I heard your voice, I realized I know you,” he said, pulling out his phone to show me texts with his sister about my podcast, Diabolical Lies

Relieved to be in the presence of someone who voluntarily listens to my voice for entertainment, we settled into an easy rapport. “It’s important for someone to come into this town and say the things you just said,” he told me, “but it also takes courage, because some of the people in that room do not want to hear it.” (Being told my talk was courageous had the same effect on the pit in my stomach as being commended as “brave” for wearing a bathing suit; which is to say, I was unaware my words would be controversial.) He told me he’s self-employed, and volunteered that his ACA premium is about to go from $150 per month to more than $780. I got the impression he wasn’t sure what he was going to do yet. 

The ACA subsidies, which make insurance more affordable for 92% of enrollees, mostly act like a funnel for draining public funding into the private profits of the insurance companies. Still, the practical effect of removing them without offering an alternate public option means people lose their health insurance, or spend a mortgage-sized amount to retain coverage. My presentation covered issues like this one, how the privatization of public goods and services leads to market-distorting wealth that makes life more expensive for everyone else; issues that most people in Teton County probably didn’t need to learn about via Google Slides because they live them at the end of every month when the rent comes due. 

But not everyone in the audience found it resonant. One woman, a fast-talking New Yorker who sought me out afterward, said she found all my material about the dream of universal basic services and union density insulting; she insisted the answer wasn’t “more government,” but more financial literacy. “Financial literacy is the answer,” she told me, “not all this socialism.” I told her I put all the financial literacy “in there,” punctuating the words by tapping on my book with a stiff forefinger. She waved her hand over the stack of signed copies, as if exiling a bad smell. “People don’t learn from reading,” she insisted (news to me), “they learn by doing.” Fair enough; no further word on what she’d like them to do.

While in Jackson, I had the distinct feeling of accidentally being at the center of something, like an ant who had marched across the frontier (via SkyWest doing business as United Airlines) and mistakenly wandered under a magnifying glass where all of America’s glory and failure had been concentrated into a single, unforgiving beam. For all the talk of its economic uniqueness, Jackson seemed to me less an anomalous expression of American capitalism than an exceptionally pure one. In the Jackson of The Last of Us, the town is “an oasis of communal living,” where residents “share the responsibilities of cooking, cleaning and maintaining the town” in “relative safety and comfort.” “The Jackson community has figured out what they need to survive their world’s fungal-themed zombie apocalypse,” Taylar Dawn Stagner writes for High Country News of the fictionalized rendition: “each other.” In real life, where the disease is different, things are a little more atomized, and solutions a little less pat. (Even the HBO version doesn’t end so tidily: The zombies do, eventually, breach the town’s defenses.)

After the final panel closed Friday afternoon, a young woman with raven hair approached the foot of the stage. “Your book…” she began, “Is it out there in the lobby?” I nodded. She told me she worked at the local bank in their private wealth division. “Do you like your job?” I asked, tentatively. She seemed reserved in a way that bordered on melancholy. “I do, most days,” she began, “but what you were saying up there…” she searched the ceiling for words. “I see that every day in my job. Some of my clients are amazing people; very philanthropic. Others made billions in another state and don’t want to pay taxes there, so they come here instead, and my job is to help shield that wealth. I hate that part.” 

This sort of ambivalence was everywhere. Another woman, a former nanny for a person who resides cozily in the top 10 of every “richest people on earth” list, described a friendly yet intense working relationship, careful not to violate a non-disclosure agreement that I can only imagine was longer than the Jackson airport’s sole runway, but made clear her feelings were complicated. The core complication being: In Teton County, billionaires are not an abstraction, they’re your neighbors—people who, like the rest of us, are capable of wonderful and terrible things.   

One such terrible thing: cowboy cosplay.

The market has priced a one-bedroom apartment in Jackson, Wyoming at an average of $3,193 per month. To live in such a space without your rent absorbing more than 30% of your monthly gross income (let the record reflect I prefer using net income), you’d need to earn $127,716 per year. At dinner after the conference, I asked one of the organizers what she felt the town’s biggest challenge was. “I mean, it’s the inequality,” she answered. A former city councilwoman sitting to my right, ever thoughtful and practical, interjected. “To be more specific,” she added, “it’s that the people who work in this town cannot afford to live here. Their wages are just not high enough.” 

Silently, I wished the woman who had felt insulted by my presentation could’ve heard this exchange, and wondered how, exactly, she’d counsel those who had been run out of town to “financial literacy” their way into a $3,200 apartment and $780 catastrophic health insurance on $20 per hour. “To be clear, these aren’t all low-wage service employees who staff T-shirt shops or clean toilets in our county’s many, often vacant luxury mansions or pricey hotel rooms,” Brigid Mander reported about Jackson for Slate in 2024. “It includes teachers and nurses, sheriffs’ deputies and doctors, air traffic controllers, wildlife biologists, mountain guides, and other seemingly integral parts of a functioning community.” As is true in the rest of the United States, an increasing number of people who work in this economy cannot afford to live in it.

In the valley, every layer—all the beauty, myth, and material impossibility—felt stretched taut, as if pulled toward the event horizon of the American economy, threatening to collapse under an infinite blue sky. When we turned onto the road leading to the airport the following morning, the snow-capped Tetons loomed so imposingly in the distance that I was surprised to feel a cold stinging at the corners of my eyes, awe and grief in equal measure.

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Joan Didion Saw the AI Bubble Coming https://moneywithkatie.com/essays/joan-didion-saw-the-ai-bubble-coming/ Mon, 27 Oct 2025 07:00:00 +0000 https://moneywithkatie.com/?post_type=essays&p=2633 As the S&P 500 continues to creep perilously higher with each passing week of 2025, I’ve been reading a lot about AI and thinking equally as much about the late Joan Didion, one of the most famous women in the grand tradition of putting words on paper. This may seem a strange, spontaneous association, but […]

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As the S&P 500 continues to creep perilously higher with each passing week of 2025, I’ve been reading a lot about AI and thinking equally as much about the late Joan Didion, one of the most famous women in the grand tradition of putting words on paper. This may seem a strange, spontaneous association, but her ruthless insistence on rejecting comforting American myths made me want to revisit her work in the context of AI speculation. Her own decades-long political evolution provides a useful case study in navigating accepted narratives, although it’s certainly a less sexy element of her legend than the iconic photograph leaning on her Stingray, cigarette dangling idly between slender fingers.

Is it any wonder this person scored a CELINE campaign?

While every cool progressive young woman today uses her Ruth Bader Ginsberg bobblehead as a bookend for the Didion shelf of her bookcase, Didion launched her career at the conservative magazine National Review. (The publication was founded by none other than William F. Buckley, a man considered the architect of the modern conservative movement.) Her own conservatism was, as Sam Adler-Bell put it, “very invested in complexity and rejecting the liberal belief in easy answers; the idea that human nature can be reduced to solvable social problems.” It was former President Ronald Reagan who eventually turned her against the party, though you get the sense it was less that she disagreed with his politics and more that she found the whole Reagan family to be unbearably tacky. “Had Goldwater remained the same age and continued running,” she wrote in 2001, “I would have voted for him in every election thereafter.”

Considering her upbringing among “conservative California Republicans,” this checks out. But when you live by the pen, you change by the pen. She eventually turned her signature, unsparing method—“no lying, no self-soothing delusions, no aspiring toward innocence in the face of evidence of culpability”—on herself. This emerges most stridently in a book she published when she was 68 called Where I Was From, which is ostensibly about the history of California but ends up functioning as a record of personal disillusionment with the state’s blinkered origin story and, to a certain reader, American exceptionalism more broadly.

In it, she systematically juxtaposes her own ancestors’ self-styled bootstrappy California landfall—traveling with the infamous Donner-Reed Party, but escaping their cannibalistic fate by, poetically, refusing to take a shortcut—with the realities of early land distribution. Describing how California was originally parceled out, she observes that land was “largely acquired through imaginative interpretation of the small print in federal legislation.” She unceremoniously lists the various loopholes which allowed for “subsidized monopolization” among a few wealthy landowners and railroad companies. (One such provision deemed any land relegated as “swamp” to be essentially handed out for free by the hundreds of thousands of acres, which led to a curious reclassification of vast tracts of the state.)

A reinvention of this history, she writes, tends to carefully trim off the unsightly fat of federal government largesse in the amassing (or destruction) of private fortunes. “Stressing as it did an extreme if ungrounded individualism, this was not an ambiance that tended toward a view of life as defined or limited or controlled, or even in any way affected, by the social and economic structures of the larger world,” she writes of early California myth-making. The implication is unavoidable: Where she once identified with an imagined, exceptional group of rugged frontierspeople determined to do whatever it took, she now sees plot holes that demand a rewrite.

Speaking about the policies that created Southern California’s broad consumer middle class in the late twentieth century, she manages to sneak in more than a little class analysis, most memorably in the chapters about the disquieting economic ripple effects of hundreds of thousands of aerospace industry layoffs in Los Angeles county in the 1980s and 1990s. “What does it cost to create and maintain an artificial ownership class?” she asks of the communities whose work had been furnished by federal defense contracts. “Who pays? Who benefits?” Then, a devastating addition: “What happens when that class stops being useful?”

In 2025, that insistent “larger world” with all its “social and economic structures” seems to be closing in on our “extreme if ungrounded individualism” at record pace, as the dissonance Didion observed in 1990s LA continues to compound under a new antagonist: artificial intelligence. As a result, we’re relying more heavily than ever on the same flawed principles to explain what will happen if the corporations that once sustained a middle class no longer have any use for it. In other words, AI appears to be stretching the narrative limits of our most treasured story beyond the point of coherence.

The US economy in its present state presents a dynamic contradiction. There’s never been a greater “divergence between equity returns and job openings,” a conflict that Derek Thompson resolved by splitting the baby into separate realities: “a booming AI economy and a lackluster everything-else economy.” To put a finer point on it: JP Morgan estimated that AI-related stocks have driven 75% of all S&P 500 growth since 2022, which might be why Ruchir Sharma wrote for the Financial Times that, at this point, the story of American optimism is indistinguishable from three Nvidia chips in a trenchcoat. A portfolio manager told the Wall Street Journal that “‘[i]nvesting in US markets is almost becoming a one-way concentrated bet on the development and proliferation of AI,’” a statement prompting me to perform a nervous asset allocation check which revealed the metastasized US exposure in my portfolio. (It should be noted that, for all the talk of US stock market impenetrability this year, international stocks have outperformed the US by the widest margin since 2009.) The closer your proximity to this “booming AI economy,” the better you’ve done. Still, watching your wealth grow from artificial intelligence at the same moment your job security is threatened by it is a little like using the right hand to repair what the left is actively destroying.

Booming or not, the fundamentals of this gold rush leave something to be desired. OpenAI is, according to the magic of the market, “worth” $500 billion, despite its mere $12 billion in revenue. Nvidia, a company that makes chips, is somehow worth more than the entire pharmaceutical industry combined. A recent Bloomberg visualization of these companies’ financial interdependencies, which would appear to show a rat king of incestuous funding, offers little in the way of clarity about the true source of the demand or value:

The dominant story now is that the US economy is a complex puzzle that needs to be unlocked, and the alchemizing power of artificial intelligence will either forge a skeleton key that slides effortlessly into our most inscrutable problems, or it will destroy us all, or it will continue to be a useful if functionally limited chat partner for lonely young men and people weaning themselves off WebMD with large language model-powered symptom radar. Only time will tell, or so the story goes.

A clearer picture emerges when we confront the uncomfortable reality that these disparate conditions could, under our current configuration, coexist indefinitely. For bulls, the logic goes something like this: “The main reason AI is regarded as a magic fix for so many different threats is that it is expected to deliver a significant boost to productivity growth, especially in the US. … Higher output per worker would lower the burden of debt by boosting GDP. It would reduce demand for labor, immigrant or domestic. And it would ease inflation risks, including the threat from tariffs, by enabling companies to raise wages without raising prices.” The magical thinking of this “best-case scenario” is revealing, because it relies on a tacit acceptance of the rusting, decades-old infrastructure of Reaganomics. This blind faith in “productivity gains” as the cure-all, no other shifts required, represents how profoundly narrow our understanding of national flourishing has become. AI exuberance, then, belies a faith in the soothing myth that we can outrun a core rot exactly as quickly as we can make GDP go up. No matter how obvious it becomes that this hasn’t been the case for at least 30 years, Didion’s ethos rings true here: Soothing myths can be hard to part with, particularly if the majority of your resources depend on you (and everyone else) continuing to believe them.

When spelled out so plainly, it becomes clear who, exactly, the “economy” in this accounting chiefly exists to serve: a set of people who, like Southern Pacific in California 150 years ago, have effectively expropriated and monopolized the resources of the US through a neat understanding of tax law and pay-to-play politicking. Didion’s observations about Southern California’s economic downswing feel eerily prescient:

This “new economy” was to be built on “international trade,” an entirely theoretical replacement for the gold-standard money tree, the federal government, that had created these communities. Many seminars on “global logistics” were held. Many warehouses were built. The first stage of [construction] was near completion before people started wondering what exactly these warehouses were to bring them; started wondering, for example, whether eight-dollars-an-hour forklift operators, hired in the interests of a “flexible” work force only on those days when the warehouse was receiving or dispatching freight, could ever become the “good citizens” of whom Mark Taper had spoken in 1969, the “enthusiastic owners of property,” the “owners of a piece of their country—a stake in the land.”

Here, she’s providing an answer to the question she posed earlier: What happens when an artificially created ownership class stops being useful? Put another way: What happens when a robot can do your job nearly as well as you can?

Technologically, the world-changing potential of artificial intelligence—while “entirely theoretical” right now—may be something genuinely novel. But economically, the more I read about the grandest flavor of conjecture, the more familiar its implications feel. No matter how valuable it becomes, it will leave our foundation, plagued with persistent and neglected cracks, untouched. A true repair would require a more wholesale rejection of the American delusions we take most for granted, like the sanctity of meritocracy’s equalizing powers, wealth concentration as the most reliable indicator of brilliance (that will eventually, it goes without saying, trickle down), and perhaps most of all, the myth of total self-sufficiency that Didion interrogated so soberly in Where I Was From.

The good news is that our current model of publicly traded (and publicly owned) companies is, in some respects, actually quite elegant. You’d be hard-pressed to find a better mechanism for diversifying and distributing the spoils and risks of a complex, profoundly interrelated economic system. Chopping up ownership of every corporation into tiny, tradable shares that can be bundled together and distributed via a product like an index fund is (Wall Street Journal subscribers, cover your ears) borderline socialist in its mechanics. We’re all familiar with why and how this ends up falling short in our current iteration, but it can be summed up in two words, both of which apply to AI valuations: concentration and manipulation.

Roughly 87% of those shares belong to 10% of people, per a Ritholtz analysis from February, which is partially why consumer spending still looks so strong (the top 10% are spending almost as much as the bottom 90% combined), and short-term thinking is the name of the game in an era of stock buybacks and equity-based executive compensation packages. But an infrastructure already exists for something far more prosperous; something that distributes the value of this economy more evenly to the people who are laboring every day to produce it. The gamble on world-changing tech just makes Didion’s project of abandoning our “self-soothing delusions” feel all the more urgent—because if what the bulls say is true, our leverage as human workers to determine our fate will never again be greater than it is right now.

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The Provider Aesthetic of Love Is Blind https://moneywithkatie.com/essays/the-provider-aesthetic-of-love-is-blind/ Tue, 14 Oct 2025 07:00:00 +0000 https://moneywithkatie.com/?post_type=essays&p=2620 Love Is Blind season 9 contestant “Sparkle” Megan Walerius says men are intimidated by her. In her own words: “I’ve done very well for myself professionally. I think it takes a very confident and secure man to be with a woman like me. It’s going to be interesting to navigate, are they just after me […]

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Love Is Blind season 9 contestant “Sparkle” Megan Walerius says men are intimidated by her.

In her own words: “I’ve done very well for myself professionally. I think it takes a very confident and secure man to be with a woman like me. It’s going to be interesting to navigate, are they just after me for money or is it me for who I am?” As Gwen Stefani’s “Rich Girl” plays in the background, Megan confides in her first confessional that she’s still single because some men are put off by “how I live, my level of success, the car I drive, the house I live in.” The camera leers at her various accessories in heavy-handed tight shots on her sparkly shoes, a thin diamond bracelet on one wrist, and a stack of gold jewelry on the other, each punctuated by a “cha-ching” sound. We are a mere 16 minutes and 47 seconds into episode one, and the editing has already illustrated Megan with all the nuance of a bedazzled LinkedIn manifesto.

This sets up the viewer for contradiction-induced vertigo when, moments later during one of her first dates, a real estate investor named Mike asks if his leaving a bunch of dirty dishes on the counter would make her mad. (Has this man never had roommates?) She hesitates. After eking out a high-pitched ummmmm, she sidesteps this trapdoor by widening her scope to abstraction. “It would annoy me, for sure, but I’m also…I kind of believe in more traditional gender roles.” His barely concealed excitement at this disclosure, accompanied by eyebrows raised in pleasant surprise and a jaunty hand-on-hip, is the okayyyy! heard ‘round the pods. 

“That’s why I’m kind of an anomaly,” she hurriedly explains, “because, yes, I’ve had an amazing career, but I also value, you know, the woman being that nurturer, and I definitely want my man to be kind of ‘the provider’…like, the security and the safety. I think there’s something to be said about a man who’s like, ‘Yeah, I want to take care of my woman.’” 

Mike, who moves like a man always on the precipice of soft-pitching a startup, would appear at first blush to fit this bill (but at what cost?). In a later date, he careens through an explanation of his own financial position in “this larger…we call it a tribe, but it’s a national thing. A bunch of guys that are wealthy are a part of it.” (In real bullet-dodging fashion, Megan ends up choosing a guy named Jordan, who lists the reasons he likes her in his own confessional—“confident,” “independent,” “strong”—though she registers early concerns about their “lifestyles meshing,” presumably referencing her success relative to his.)

Money has always been a phantom contestant on Love Is Blind, a series that debuted a genuinely novel dating show premise in 2020. Still, season nine seemed to be making a point. Having barely just recovered from Megan and Mike’s asset management summit date, we are confronted again by its presence minutes later when another contestant named Anton plucks a similar chord in one of his first dates with a healthcare professional named Ali. “I’ve built my business. I’ve bought my first house when I was really young. I’ve done well for myself, and I’m the provider. I’m very, like, old-school, traditional, in terms of how I treat women.” There are those words again: provider; traditional. (In a later episode, Ali and Anton—having chosen to get engaged—playfully debate how much he should’ve spent on her ring. He says $5,000, she doubles his money and goes for $10,000. The gag is that production buys the rings; the contestants pay nothing.)

These interactions present a real hammer–nail conundrum for a viewer in my line of work, which requires being painfully aware of the gendered labor statistics economists have been firing off for the last two decades like unheeded distress flares, a sad fireworks display of futile awareness. Heterosexual couples in which the woman is the primary earner are the only “type” in time-use research where the primary earner also spends more time on “home production” tasks. A 2025 National Bureau of Economic Research working paper found that “[i]n every other couple type—heterosexual couples with male breadwinners, lesbian couples, and gay couples—the breadwinner spends less time on home production than the non-breadwinner,” taking care to point out that “this is driven not by childcare” (which could ostensibly carry some genuine biological limitations early on) but rather “chores like food preparation and cleaning.” 

By the time Kalybriah asks Edmond if he’s looking for a “traditional or non-traditional marriage,” I braced for impact—all but certain this was an intentional theme of the episode—but Edmond’s answer (“definitely non-traditional”) takes the conversation to new and welcome territory. Kalybriah agrees. “I’m okay if I’m the breadwinner; I’m okay if my husband’s the breadwinner. I’m okay if I cook; I’m okay if my husband cooks.” At this, Edmond and I both engaged in private celebration. 

One fair read of all this posturing is that when educated, high-income women say “provider,” what they really mean is contributor—someone who isn’t a net-drag on their resources. Another is that it’s serving a different purpose altogether: subtly setting expectations about physical appearance.

Allow me to explain: The meet-your-soulmate-through-a-wall format has given way to a few predictable tropes. One of my favorite reviews of the show named the bombastic flirting style—“Hot Person vibes”—of the contestants who “spend lots of money (on clothes, on cosmetic procedures) and time (at the gym, at the club) with the express goal of being seen,” which is often subconsciously perceptible to the person on the other side of the wall. “A Hot Person doesn’t have to sell themself; they’re operating under an assumption that they are desired,” Emily Palmer Heller writes, even when they cannot be seen. This observation, I thought, was brilliant. The paths of inquiry this reality has given us—like all the creative ways the men try to assess whether a woman is thin (“Could I put you on my shoulders at a concert?”)—reveal many techniques for deducing whether someone is your “type” that don’t immediately scan as overtly about looks.

But it was only in watching season nine, episode one, that I finally recognized a new line of questioning (and calculated self-revelation) that seemed to hint at the same: asserting an approval of so-called “traditional” gender dynamics, a choreography so committed to our cultural muscle memory that it’s easy to forget it’s less about dollars than desirability. Broadcasting your embrace of this arrangement is really about signaling femininity—and femininity, to bastardize the Miranda July line, is really just beauty. 

Since the beginning of the women’s rights movement, the political avatar for a woman who challenges gender roles has been The Feminist, or a person who believes in—and I suppose this is my working definition—liberation from a biological narrowing of your humanity. Since the 19th century, feminists have been portrayed as unattractive, masculine “hags,” fighting for something “unnatural” (equal rights under the law). 

The right to vote, pay equity, and egalitarian partnerships are things that hot chicks don’t want, you see, because their beauty allows them to access something far superior to all that noise: a doting husband with money. This is the implicit trade. The savvy leaders of the suffrage movement knew this, and as such, embraced “feminine” presentation in public and in propaganda to defuse the politically noxious bomb that women who wanted equality were, either as a result or inciting factor, ugly—the worst thing a woman can be. 

In a recent episode of Diabolical Lies that analyzed how modern misunderstandings of “tradition” inform reactionary beliefs about gender, I played a six-month-old clip for my cohost in which the late Charlie Kirk and his wife Erika discuss the proper roles for men and women in marriage. “How much did you guys discuss religion, finances, politics, how to raise children, before getting engaged?” a listener asked. Charlie zeroes in on finances, then addresses his male listeners directly: “Men, you should be completely in charge of finances.” Somewhat bewilderingly given her role as the founder and ostensible owner of two companies, Erika emphatically agrees. Charlie continues: “Your wife should have nothing to do with it. I mean, they can have input, but you should release that burden from your wife and just take care of all the money.” 

A couple of minutes later, buoyed by her support, Charlie doubles down, this time addressing his female listeners: “If you are marrying a man that is not capable of completely and totally handing the finances, then you should not marry that man.” At this, she lightly pushes back, but he insists that a marriage in which women financially participate by earning or managing money is unnatural; a fiscal manifestation of “confused gender roles” which spells disaster for the fragile arrangement of heterosexual monogamy, its stability forever hanging in the balance of invisible, highly specific rules about whether it’s gay to do your own laundry. The woman’s proper role in all of this, they agree, is what they call (but, it’s worth noting, struggle to coherently define) “submission.” Tellingly, part of what submission entails, Erika explains, is “…you need to take care of yourself in order to…you can’t be looking like Adam Sandler and expect that you’re going to…” We never find out what we shouldn’t expect if we indulge the slapstick aesthetic of basketball shorts and Hawaiian shirts, because here, Charlie interrupts to tell the men that, for them, success in love comes down to “just figur[ing] out ways to make more money.” 

After reviewing a few more examples from similar programming, my cohost, novelist Caro Claire Burke, clocked the bottom line of this rhetorical maneuvering. “They use terms like soft and feminine and submissive,” antonyms for the masculine, traditional provider archetype, “but what they’re really talking about is pretty. You have to be pretty.” In that sense, a female Love Is Blind candidate who’s comfortable demanding that her partner offer masculine power and provision is, in a roundabout way, hinting at her own adherence to a woman’s role in this quid pro quo: beauty. 

To be sure, I don’t believe these contestants are doing this purposely or deceptively—on the contrary, we’re all so fluent in this cultural script (feminists ugly, submissive young brides pretty) that it usually evades conscious recognition altogether. When Anton says he believes a man should be a provider and casts himself as such, he is not just stating a preference for how household finances are handled (though he will later express hesitation about Ali having her own bank account)—he is issuing a tacit expectation that he is met in this transaction by a woman who understands her role to “not look like Adam Sandler,” as Erika put it. Fortunately for him, Ali is a smokeshow with a job; it remains to be seen whether Anton makes a commensurate amount of money.

More instructively, this interpretation translates Megan’s seemingly incongruous statements about her lifestyle and belief system into something more legible. She does not actually wish to become a stay-at-home wife with an allowance. She just wants Mike to know she’s hot. (“I’m just very drawn to Mike,” she says privately, stating the obvious. “I want to build an empire with someone, and I think he would be a great person to do it with”—not exactly the language of a gal hoping to hang up the old Slack account.) In a dating environment where the power of one’s looks are totally neutralized, it’s no wonder this sort of antiquated shorthand becomes a crutch for communicating something as clumsy as desire. 

These desires are, of course, shaped by what’s happening outside the pods. This includes the broader economic reality of the 2020s, which might clarify the urgency of the contestants’ task to get married to someone they met a month ago. In her 2006 essay “American Nightmare,” political theorist Wendy Brown sketches the relationship between neoliberal economic principles (read: what the kids call “late-stage capitalism”) and social conservatism (read: Charlie Kirk telling young men not to get married unless they earn enough money to support a family). In modern life, the mythic “male provider–female nurturer” dynamic is positioned like a comforting antidote to the very real challenges of an unforgiving society that constructs “governance according to market criteria.” The genius of Brown’s essay and the book it later appeared to inspire, Melinda Cooper’s 2017 Family Values, is that they expose how these two powerful forces are not countervailing, but conspiring. 

In other words, it’s difficult to discern where a romantic imperative blurs into an economic one: A 2023 paper from the Federal Reserve of Dallas found that a version of the US where marriage did not exist would see prime-age male work hours decline by 7%. Is this because, without the prospect of marriage (“just figuring out ways to make more money” to get a girlfriend), men wouldn’t work as much? Or because once they’re married (per the time-use data), they have more time or incentive for work? The direction of the correlation is not conclusive, but the data suggests the economic powers that be would have a reasonable vested interest in Anton saying “yes” at the altar. 

In episode eight, after touring a $2 million home with his new fiancée Sparkle Megan, a visibly uncomfortable Jordan equivocates: “I don’t think she’ll ever feel like I’m mooching,” he explains, “but I feel like a mooch, you know? The fact that she’s just talking about buying a house for us, and she’s like, ‘I’ll take care of it, don’t worry about it.’ I think that’d be hard for any blue-collar guy to absorb, because I’ve always been the provider, and now someone’s stepping in.” It’s satisfying to watch these two people process the friction of transgressing their “roles” in real time, particularly because we know if the situation were reversed, asymmetric financial success would be nothing more than a happy ending. “But I don’t want her to be stepping down, and like, maybe not living the life she wants as a compromise to be with me,” he continues, before appearing to reclaim the word that’s been so freighted up until that point: “So I want to make her feel at home, and be a provider for her, too.”

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Babygirl, Girlbosses, and Economic Nostalgia https://moneywithkatie.com/essays/babygirl-girlbosses-and-economic-nostalgia/ Mon, 29 Sep 2025 08:00:00 +0000 https://moneywithkatie.com/?post_type=essays&p=2586 I spent the weekend in a cabin just south of Breckenridge that appeared to be constructed with Lincoln Logs. It was a gumdrop surrounded by towering fir trees, the lighting soft and warm. Aspens tore peels of shimmering gold into the mountainside. Exploring the cabin’s cozy insides, I felt like one of the claymation figures […]

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I spent the weekend in a cabin just south of Breckenridge that appeared to be constructed with Lincoln Logs. It was a gumdrop surrounded by towering fir trees, the lighting soft and warm. Aspens tore peels of shimmering gold into the mountainside. Exploring the cabin’s cozy insides, I felt like one of the claymation figures in the Airbnb commercials, toddling silently between the rooms of a Colorado-themed diorama. 

This quieting effect was its main appeal: the stripping away of street noise and the electromagnetic hum of a home office and all the neuroses that I’ve developed and stowed in my 1,200 square feet of Denver, where I have felt more than ever this year like I’m looping the same day, week, month, over and over again, each revolution faster than the last. I hoped this getaway would stop the spinning, like ejecting a hand from bed after one too many drinks to grope around for the ground and steady yourself. In this case, the hand was the whole self. When the usual suspects (sleep, walks, baths) stopped having the desired effect on my mood for longer than a couple of hours, two days off the grid was the hard reset that felt up to the task of restoring me for the final work sprint of the year. (This was before I realized that sleeping at an elevation of 11,000 feet implied mild hypoxia for the duration of our stay, but that’s showbiz, baby.)

Nobody enjoyed this more than Sam Cat.

That the Wi-Fi stopped working the first night felt like a cosmic joke. You said you wanted to disconnect, I chided myself, panic rising in my throat as I uselessly refreshed a Chrome tab that stubbornly bore the same “No internet” message below a pixelated dinosaur. But wasn’t that the entire point? To avoid, as Jia Tolentino characterized it earlier this year, the “device that makes me feel like I am strapped flat to the board of an unreal present: the past has vanished, the future is inconceivable, and my eyes are clamped open to view the endlessly resupplied now?”

Burnout’s spin cycle in an age when one could theoretically be sustained by a nonstop parade of front-door deliveries of (truly) any conceivable desire is—how do I put this?—humiliating. I imagine some ancestor freshly arrived at Ellis Island, knee-deep in a slurry of animal remains inside a rancid meatpacking plant for 18 hours each day, being confronted with a discomfiting vision: It’s their distant progeny (me!) pacing around a climate-controlled apartment in sweatpants, mumbling about something called a podcast and bemoaning an endless barrage of electronic mail and voter registration and parking tickets and doctors who don’t know why you sporadically wake in the middle of the night to vomit, but it sounds like chronic stress. Would they get back on the boat, assessing that it wasn’t worth it after all to guarantee the future of such a weak-willed dilettante? 

Regardless of the cause, becoming a little unmoored has by now taken a recognizable shape. I become hyperfixated on some virtually useless commodity that symbolizes The Treat That Will Change Everything. Last week, an ASMR YouTube video was recommended to me which pledged 1 hour and 15 minutes of “Cozy Fall Pampering” with Trader Joe’s pumpkin-scented ephemera. I immediately began rationalizing why autumnal-themed foodstuffs were—obviously—my mental health’s missing link. How had I not seen it sooner? The answer was right in front of me! (Or, more accurately, across town at Trader Joe’s.) Eventually, I settled on a Thoreauvian compromise: the cabin. 

On the second night (after the internet was restored), we watched the 2024 erotic thriller Babygirl, a genre of film I generally refer to as a “sick f***” movie. (Used in a sentence: “That’s a movie for sick f***s!”) As far as kink plots go, it was actually fairly vanilla—an exploration of the popular fantasy that powerful, rich women secretly wish to be powerless and subjugated. The movie was ostensibly about consent, desire, and shame, but all I could focus on was what Nicole Kidman’s character, CEO Romy Mathis, was wearing. (Sexist!) For as long as I can remember, I’ve been reluctantly drawn to characters like hers, mistaking cautionary tales about caricatured strivers (and their color-coordinated schedules) for tutorials. You can put a woman in the woods, but you can’t make her stop fetishizing business formalwear.

The proto-Boss Babe, Ashley Olsen’s Jane Ryan. The moment she pulled back the double doors to reveal her closet in New York Minute (2004) was one of many Olsen-twin-facilitated formative memories. That daybook? Her note cards? Transcendent. 

Pinning hopes for success on hypercompetent navigation of a modern economy is typical of the so-called professional-managerial class, a term coined by Barbara and John Ehrenreich in 1977 (or, in political theory, the “petite bourgeoisie,” a phrase which for some reason always makes me think of dainty finger sandwiches). It’s “the fantasy that financial anxiety and stress are temporary states of being that can be overcome through hard work, competition and education,” as Catherine Liu writes

If Barbara were still alive, she might observe that the economic extremes plaguing the 2020s are merely the continuation of a process that began many years ago, when deindustrialization broadsided America’s working class. The rising sea levels of neoliberal policymaking have finally begun to meaningfully dampen the prospects of the professional-managerial class, who (maybe subconsciously) believed themselves to be more or less exempted from its worst offenses. Of course, she would probably tell us, that was never true. Because they, too, had to sell their labor, they were always “subject to the same pressures as other workers: deskilling, the weakening of their collective economic power, the degradation of the meaning of their work.” There is an implied lesson in this analysis that would suggest a change of course: The respites of self-help, hustle, and merit once assumed to reliably produce autonomy and fulfillment were a sleight of hand all along, which served only to “reproduc[e]… capitalist culture and class relations” and undermine any real chance at transformative solidarity. 

Naturally, most financial media prefers to avoid class analysis, instead framing this ennui in terms of generation or gender. This provides narrative cover for dismissing structural strain by assigning it to the unique psychology of young people (or men, or women), rather than a legitimate force that exists outside TikTok. 

Gen Z is, allegedly, rife with “financial nihilism” about the future. “Zoomers grew up with smartphones, the internet, and social media during difficult times like the 2008 economic crisis and Great Recession, and the subsequent Occupy Wall Street protest movement,” Fast Company offered last week in one unconvincing explanation. In this telling, it was not these crises themselves, but the crust of digital connectivity specific to Gen Z that shaped their preferences and disenchantments. “They’re disillusioned with traditional ways of doing things, which extends to how they invest and conduct their own finances,” the article explained. Back in January, Bloomberg warned that a “feminine” form of financial nihilism (read: find rich man) was ascendant. Over the summer, CNBC sympathized with “young speculators” so eager to “break out of the American caste system” that they had “embraced financial nihilism.”

The story has been exercised to the point of exhaustion by now. When there’s little hope that the traditional path will pan out as promised (student loans, unaffordable homes, wage stagnation, etc.), the metaphoric lottery ticket looks like a reasonable alternative. The scant proof of said nihilism is a stated interest in riskier investment behavior, like options trading or cryptocurrency or sports betting. (All products, it should be noted, with multibillion-dollar markets and marketing behind them.) Young women have given up on money and careers of their own in favor of mating up, the story goes; young men have given up altogether and turned to the slot machines of memecoins and DraftKings. The resultant impression is one of generational hopelessness and fatalism, a group so up to their eyeballs in trauma and trigger warnings that they’ve stopped trying en masse. But is it true?

An NBC poll conducted in August with Americans aged 18–29 found that young women and men had identical “top three” priorities in response to a question about personal definitions of success: Number one for both was “having a job or career you find fulfilling,” number two was “having enough money to do the things you want to do,” and in third place, “achieving financial independence,” ranking all three above things like spiritual fulfillment, community involvement, and family formation. Tellingly, this trend held true for presumably conservative young women, those who voted for Trump. These are not the priorities of people who have given up on their hopes of upward mobility, but those who are instead singularly focused on it.

Once back in Denver and on the hunt for something I couldn’t buy in the woods (overpriced caffeine), I walked past a pilates studio with a sandwich board propped up at its entrance that commanded passersby to GET OBSESSED. The ad featured a striking woman (SNL’s Ego Nwodim, it turns out), all glowy sinew and smolder, perched cherry-like atop a pilates reformer. Implausibly, she was wearing a sleek white blazer and matching stilettos. I paused in front of the sign, sustaining eye contact, waiting to feel something like cynicism or annoyance with the dated Sexy Corporate Empowerment trope. It felt like a relic of (pre-election) 2016, when peak modern womanhood was mostly tantamount to group exercise and Revolve suits.

Shipwrecked on the sidewalk, it was not cynicism I felt, but a confusing, wistful longing. It wasn’t that I missed the pre-pandemic years, per se—when I would take an hour-long fitness class at six in the morning, five days a week, before spending 10 hours in heels and hard pants—so much as I missed when such things sounded not only like reasonable ways to spend one’s time, but fun. Back then, ambition still felt clean and moral; its challenges seemed to be accruing to something meaningful.

My mind immediately flashed again to Kidman’s character in Babygirl, all low chignons and high-neck blouses (“Another serve,” my husband joked approvingly when she appeared on screen in ‘fit after impeccable ‘fit), and how competent and controlled she seemed before her proclivities—and all that lactose—derailed her to the point of taking tousled weekday couch naps next to open jars of peanut butter on the floor, the universal distress signal for Not Thriving. (When she appeared again behind her desk at the end of the film reassembled in dignified workwear, I was embarrassed to feel palpable relief.)

The presence of these women in my weekend—the fictional Romy Mathis, the real Ego Nwodin—seemed significant, somehow, like an inadvertent girlboss revivalism. They appeared to inhabit a different world entirely, one in which constant self-discipline and hypercompetence was not only still possible, but glamorous and effective. 

Such aspirational displays must be understood not as drivers of a culture that’s been subsumed and defined by its economic system, but as responses to it. Nostalgia is a potent force both individually and nationally; some imagined, simpler past with cheaper homes and Chainsmokers songs and fewer breaking news push notifications. Normally, the era most effectively wielded in American politics to prescribe cultural shifts is the 1950s. But what does it mean to privately indulge in nostalgia for the 2010s, a time that felt comparatively hopeful? What to make of the fact that, regardless of the lofty class analysis, I still feel better when I’m trying? 

For the professional-managerial aspirants, the 2010s were all about startups, self-help, and striving—a path that, by the following decade, was widely understood and mocked as an individualist dead end; the Ehrenreichs’ 1977 prediction seemingly coming true. But for all the talk of nihilism and hopelessness, the pilates class I could see through the windows was full.

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A Political Economy Theory of the Glow-Up https://moneywithkatie.com/essays/a-political-economy-theory-of-the-glow-up/ Mon, 15 Sep 2025 08:00:00 +0000 https://moneywithkatie.com/?post_type=essays&p=2572 “Let me tell you about the very rich. They are different from you and me.” —F. Scott Fitzgerald in The Rich Boy, 1926 “You know how people who come into money suddenly look better?” I texted my friend the other day as I breached the threshold of the grocery store’s automatic doors. “How does that […]

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“Let me tell you about the very rich. They are different from you and me.” —F. Scott Fitzgerald in The Rich Boy, 1926

“You know how people who come into money suddenly look better?” I texted my friend the other day as I breached the threshold of the grocery store’s automatic doors. “How does that happen? How do I hire someone to give me a glow-up?” The question had occurred to me on the silent car ride to the store after I caught an unflattering glimpse of myself in the rear-view mirror. I considered it further as I plucked a bunch of green onions from a wall of vegetables and plunged a damp handful into a produce bag. Her response blooped into our open chat, face up in the cart, almost immediately. “What do you mean?” Then another: “Do you have a certain celebrity in mind?”

I scanned my mental Rolodex for an emblematic case study as I pushed my way down the cereal aisle, then pulled over next to the granola. “I guess Taylor Frankie Paul?” I responded. The triple name in question, a troll-y momfluencer who became popular on TikTok for the sort of provocative yet vanilla dance videos that launched the entertainment careers of many a white woman since 2020, perfectly embodied the subtle metamorphosis in question. 

Paul was swept into mainstream fame last year thanks to the bewildering popularity of the Hulu reality series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. (I have, of course, seen every episode.) Her physical transformation since then has not been dramatic—to be a TikTok It Girl, your starting point must be conventionally attractive—but it is noticeable, especially if you’re attuned to the way wealth slowly, visibly announces itself. Paul is a fan-favorite “character” in the Mormon Wives universe because she’s the only cast member whose personality doesn’t seem buried beneath layers of posturing and self-conscious image curation. (The series opens with police body-cam footage of an intoxicated Paul being arrested for fighting with her boyfriend.) She’s a flawed person, and she knows it, which makes for excellent television. It was just announced that she’ll be ABC’s next Bachelorette, the first time the leading lady has been sourced from outside the franchise.

The glow-up pattern typically goes something like this: Normal traits like dull skin, a bad fake tan, blocky eyebrows, and often long, harshly highlighted hair—what I can only describe as the suburban mall aesthetic of my adolescence, like Victoria’s Secret PINK sweatpants tucked into worn, chocolate brown Uggs—are refined into a glossy, glowy, and windswept look that telegraphs access to a vast and accommodating glam squad. Paul appeared earlier this week on Alex Cooper’s Call Her Daddy to discuss her casting as the Bachelorette; Cooper herself might be an even more illustrative case of “Regular Midwest Suburban Hot Turned Upper-Class Hot” after she clinched a multiyear, $60 million podcasting deal with Spotify in 2021. 

Most rich women in the public eye tend to adhere to this visual code: luscious, tastefully colored hair; a frozen forehead; eyes that, through cosmetic intervention or actual rest, always appear as though they’ve freshly awoken from a nap in a cryo chamber. (In last week’s newsletter, I included a subway ad for the editing app Facetune that instructed, menacingly, “Look like you had 8 hours of sleep.”) When taken to extremes, the look in question can appear surrealist—embalmed, even—but there’s a sweet spot before the fillers start to migrate that suggests life is as frictionless as one’s glassy skin. Despite my commitment to proselytizing the Gospel of the Hot Girl Hamster Wheel (that beauty labor is not only time- and money-intensive, but also a waste of both for most normal people), it was notable when these two women, almost exactly my age, gradually Animorphed on my screen as they became wealthier.

The Kardashians are towering totems on Glow-Up Easter Island, from which the “You’re not ugly, you’re just poor” meme originated. Even rich men reliably undergo a similar physical transformation, as many have noted about Jeff Bezos (Mr. Clean cosplay), Mark Zuckerberg (“hit with the Dominican ray”), and Elon Musk (hair plugs). 

By the time I found myself wheeling down the dairy aisle, I was pretty sure there was an underground, invitation-only industry of LooksMaxxing professionals activated via Bat-Signal once one accumulates enough money and prominence to score their recognition. My friend had a different theory. “I think these people slowly accumulate teams,” she hypothesized, “but it probably starts with a stylist, who then recommends a colorist, who might offer an aesthetician referral, and so on.” This sounded more complicated and slipshod than my Centralized Cabal theory, but the slow burn is probably more realistic. 

Still, the mechanics of this now-predictable transformation continue to interest me: How does this begin, technically speaking? Is the newly flush-with-cash person assigned a Glow-Up Director by the Deep State to execute tactics from a fine-tuned, well-coiffed playbook? Are they consciously seeking out this particular aesthetic, or is the process less intentional? Could you walk into a salon in West Hollywood and ask for the Recently Viral Special? And maybe most importantly, what does it mean that wealth tends to physically manifest in such a uniform way; that “1%” is a distinct and differentiating aesthetic category as much as it is an income bracket?

That rich people look different than the rest of us is mostly accepted wisdom at this point. (One Reddit thread I found theorized the simple fact of never worrying about rent would make somebody look less haggard.) Even those who are wealthy outside the public eye tend to dress and carry themselves differently, a fascination inflamed by HBO’s Succession, which created a cottage industry of fashion freelancers producing an endless barrage of “old” vs. “new” money style write-ups in 2023. The popularity of brands like Loro Piana and The Row, synonymous with an understated expression of asset accumulation, crescendoed. 

As I shopped for the rest of my dinner, I continued to meditate on the shiny hair and glowing skin that wealth has unlocked for my contemporaries. Beauty has long been associated with goodness—and, as I wrote in Rich Girl Nation, capital. A straightforward example comes from the Tinder-simple moralizing in Disney movies: The evil witches are ugly; the pure princesses are beautiful. Despite my constant “class consciousness” rallying, the focus of my curiosity was not an academic inquiry into how such a transformation served to visually separate the rich from the hoi polloi or soften our perceptions of them, but where I could score some glow-up juice for myself. (I am but a simple, shallow observer who’s closer to her southern sorority girl roots than I like to let on most days.)

The finer points of the behavior, aesthetics, and proclivities of the rich have fascinated American writers for as long as the stratospheric class has existed. F. Scott Fitzgerald obsessed over the visual particulars of the wealthy in exquisite, literary detail at the height of their frivolity and excess during the 1920s. His scenes unfolded in the aftermath of the Great War (later rendered “the first” by its catastrophic sequel a couple decades later), a time which set the wheels of our favored American pastimes—economic dominance, consumerism, inequality—more decidedly into motion. Thanks to Prohibition, swaths of libertines were becoming wealthy, and quickly. Like the modern TikTok star-cum-celebrity, there was a grain of truth to the American dream of striking it rich.

Fitzgerald himself was, at least for a time, close to his subject. By 1925, when he published The Great Gatsby (the book celebrated its centennial in April), he reportedly earned an average of $24,000 per year, an income which catapulted him into the top 1 percent. (While the consumer price index was brand new then, having been developed in response to post-war inflation, one estimate said this would be equivalent to about $500,000 today—and with a far lower tax burden.) Back then, such an income could purchase a soccer team of servants. Fitzgerald and his wife Zelda had a “butler, chauffeur, yard man, cook, parlor maid and chamber maid,” plus “a laundress.” (The original glam squad?) He was infamously bad at managing money—at the time of his death in 1940, his estate was only worth around $35,000, or less than $1 million in today’s dollars.

Gatsby, for all its superficial glitz and glamor, also captured the era’s underlying moral rot, and carried with it an ominous warning of impending doom. Of Fitzgerald’s mindset while writing Gatsby, one history buff observed that he seemed to “have already foreseen the lasting consequences of America’s heady romance with capitalism and materialism.” His warning went unheeded. Just four years after the book was published, the Great Depression began. 

It’s hard not to feel as though we’re approaching a precipice of similar historic magnitude. The parallels are eerie and numerous, beginning with the 2020 global pandemic which mirrored the deadly 1918 global influenza, moving swiftly into the “Roaring Twenties”-style crypto bubble of the early 2020s. The racist moral panic du jour in the 1920s surrounded the influx of Italian immigrants, who were considered non-white and believed to have an ethnic predisposition to Doing Crimes. (Catholics were also viewed with suspicion and disdain, which means I would’ve been in double jeopardy.) In 1928, a year before the crash, the top 1% of households received 23.9% of all pretax income; the bottom 90% received 50.7%. As of 2022, we were approaching similarly barbaric levels of inequality: The top 1% received 20.7%; the bottom 90%, 53.2%. The polarization of the early twentieth century is typically characterized as “urban” vs. “rural”; today, that fight goes by a different name: “left” vs. “right.” Then, as now, the true distinction was capital vs. everyone else.

My politics are primarily concerned with economic justice, built on the foundation that people’s behavior and beliefs are inherently malleable and shaped to a large degree by their material circumstances—not unlike the bleached, mall-going Every Girl transformed by new media money into a millionaire with honeyed hair and tasteful cosmetic work, or the low-income worker turned virulent bigot in the face of decades of offshoring and wage stagnation. It’s easier to dismiss fanatical claims about the devious immigrants and trans people stealing your jobs and houses when you already have both jobs and houses. (This theory’s most obvious logical gaps are wealthy Baby Boomer conservatives, who own the majority of our country’s wealth and houses, and low-income progressives, who own virtually none of it.) The relationship between one’s circumstances and political beliefs is far from perfectly linear or rational, but one thing is for sure: The ultra-rich, unlike the rest of us, have outstanding class solidarity, which regularly transcends the left-right political spectrum altogether. 

The 1920s-esque inequality we face now is anathema to social cohesion. It is a fundamentally unstable molecule posing a constant risk of nuclear meltdown, because humans are less homo economicus than homo socialis. Our interpretation of our socioeconomic standing is comparative and relative, not absolute. That’s why data purporting to show the median American is better off in real terms than they were 30 years ago is less supportive evidence of economic contentment than one might assume. What counts to homo socialis is how much further away the richest have floated on the upthrust of everyone else’s work. 

There are academic explanations for why severe inequality is toxic to the body economic—inefficient concentration of power over labor, the law of diminishing marginal returns to consumption, increasingly speculative investment behavior, breakdown of basic public services—but that omits what is perhaps the most damaging element, which is the poison that oxidizes in one’s gut when watching another individual spend $50 million on a Venetian wedding while workers in his warehouses file lawsuits over human rights abuses. That, it goes without saying, should be viscerally offensive to the basic morality of any person whose operating system has not been irredeemably corrupted by a steady stream of Grant Cardone videos. What would Fitzgerald have to say about how reality TV, billionaires, and President Reality TV Billionaire have accelerated this social breakdown? 

Historically, nations in a position this precarious swing right, and swing hard. Italians and Germans embraced fascism in the 1920s and 1930s after the war left them in various states of economic instability, social fragmentation, and wealth inequality, their disillusioned citizens grasping at nationalism for answers. But the US, protected by its geographic isolation and a lack of humiliating post-war reparations, avoided this fate, responding to its own crisis by shifting leftward. Franklin D. Roosevelt’s New Deal invested heavily in prosocial programs like Social Security, reformed the financial sector, and established labor rights with the Wagner Act. 

This isn’t because Americans were immune from flirting with fascism, but because American institutions responded differently. They (accurately) assigned blame for the country’s economic troubles to banks, monopolies, and wealth concentration, where charismatic leaders in Italy and Germany blamed Jews, Communists, and other minorities. In each case, solutions were devised according to these narratives about who bore responsibility. Where others crumbled under the toxic weight of hypernationalism, state repression, and militarization, the US embraced a racially stratified spate of social programs and public works. (It’s important not to overstate things: FDR’s democratic populism was still designed to rescue and preserve the basic structure of capitalism, making it, one could argue, an inherently conservative project.) Still, the last time a proto-class consciousness meaningfully took hold in the US, the country navigated away from a profound crisis that could’ve otherwise taken a much more violent and destructive turn. 

Fitzgerald published his cautionary tale on the eve of a national collapse. We are, again, at the edge. Inequality’s radioactive sludge has seeped into every part of our culture, from Hulu’s Daisy Buchanans to the acid bath of our politics. Our choice now isn’t between inequality and justice; it’s between justice and collapse. We can’t afford to choose wrong.

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Past Lives https://moneywithkatie.com/essays/past-lives/ Mon, 01 Sep 2025 12:00:03 +0000 https://57818.showitstaging.com/?post_type=essays&p=2479 I rarely have occasion to visit sports stadiums anymore. Before this weekend, the last time I entered an enormous arena was not to be taken hostage by three hours of sports, but as a three-hour ritual devoted to my Emotional Support Billionaire, Taylor Swift.  Still, every time I disappear into a herd of people shuffling […]

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I rarely have occasion to visit sports stadiums anymore. Before this weekend, the last time I entered an enormous arena was not to be taken hostage by three hours of sports, but as a three-hour ritual devoted to my Emotional Support Billionaire, Taylor Swift. 

Still, every time I disappear into a herd of people shuffling up the concrete switchbacks to the 300 section, I am 19 again in Bryant-Denny Stadium. The salty, oily smell of concessions and the echoing roar of a crowd are reliable transportation mechanisms, igniting flares of adrenaline in my stomach that feel a little like nausea and a lot like recognition that you’re living through a period that will be both brief and rare.

On Sunday, we went to Coors Field to see the Rockies play the Cubs. Before we left for the ballpark, I was scrambling to outrun a creeping deadline. Most of Monday afternoon would be absorbed by a rally at the Capitol, where I’d meet other people who wanted to spend their Labor Day carrying signs through downtown. As a result, each hour between the game and Tuesday morning represented precious calendar real estate. I had already calculated what time I could be back home to clock a few more solid hours before bed, assuming ample Lime bike availability and no extra innings. 

When we walked into the stadium—up the ramps, through the concessions, into our section of sun-baked seats—I felt the familiar stirring in my gut, like a phantom limb erroneously insisting I’d had too many whiskey Cokes at the tailgate, my wedges were impractical for standing on the bleachers of the student section, and some flavor-of-the-week fraternity crush was probably nearby, wildly thrashing a red-and-white shaker to Dixieland Delight. For one flickering moment, I forgot that I would not be returning to my off-campus house to debrief with roommates and plot our night out. Instead, much to my 19-year-old self’s horror, I would re-embody a sober, 30-year-old woman wearing sensible shoes, scheming only a caffeinated return to the holy Google Doc. 

Still, I privately indulged the fantasy for a little longer, luxuriating in the reverie of caring so little about anything other than enjoying myself, a vestigial memory of a time before headlines like CONSTITUTIONAL CRISIS became commonplace enough to stop warranting alarm, when it still felt like history was trundling along on a predetermined track. It already wasn’t, of course; I just didn’t know any better back then, or, if I’m honest, particularly care. 

After the game(Rockies won in a walkoff), the rest of my party processed to a bar down the block to celebrate. I located the nearest rattletrap of a rentable e-bike and rode home. As I navigated the bike lanes, periodically cross-referencing my memory of the route with Google Maps, an unanticipated heaviness descended. I knew it was the right decision to spend the evening reading and resting (hours of bar hopping are less enjoyable when you don’t drink anyway), but the ghostly 19-year-old body double of SEC Saturdays past was sorority-squatting in the bike basket, double-fisting Bud Lights, staring me down. She wanted to go out. 

I rarely regret the way I’ve structured my adult life—the commitments, priorities, and accordant tradeoffs—but every once in a while, a situation blows the dust off a parallel path. The glimpse of the carefree, no-stakes pleasure of a life primarily oriented around having fun and evading as much responsibility as possible felt like an exit ramp to an alternate universe. 

Three years ago today, I had my last drink. It’s probably unfair to say “drink,” singular, since I’m not actually sure how many—enough to wake up the next morning marinating in clammy shame. I didn’t mean to swear off alcohol indefinitely; that part happened by accident when it was no longer possible to deny how good I felt without it. As my twenties—and, more to the point, the 2020s—wore on, nights out would leave a psychic and physical residue that began resembling a permanent stain more than a light funk to be expunged by a long walk around the quad and a stop at Raising Cane’s. When I encounter people able to cup the oil and water of hedonism and ambition in their hands simultaneously, I’m overcome with envious longing, only capable of holding onto one at a time. 

People cope with uncertainty in different ways, and my preferred method of fending off anxiety was to remain as clear-eyed an observer of reality as possible. Part of this was purely selfish—the head-stuffed-with-cotton sensation I felt after drinking even a little was simply incompatible with my work schedule. But the other part felt driven by something animal, an irrational survival instinct to stay vigilant, consistent with my inability to fall asleep on planes (because I am, of course, keeping it in the air with my mind, etc.). Sometimes I wonder what would make me want to break my streak, though each passing day makes it seem less and less likely a time will come when I feel enough peace about the state of the world to purposely seek out disorientation. 

When I woke up Monday morning for a weight-lifting class, the regret had already transmuted into something approximating relief, which solidified later when I noticed I had the energy and interest to go collect signatures for SBWU at the rally. (Standing in direct sunlight for hours to foist a clipboard on strangers is not a task I would’ve voluntarily sought out at all in my early twenties, least of all on a holiday.)

At the rally, I bought the Denver Voice from a man named David who told me the newspaper’s vendor program was designed to offer low-barrier work to people who needed it. “I didn’t know the Voice was still publishing,” another man called from across the lawn when he spotted me tucking it under my arm. As I walked toward him, I noticed he was pushing a walker with a speckled dog perched on its narrow bench. “I used to sell papers for them when I was homeless,” he said. He told me his name was Brian, and that he lived on the streets of Denver for 33 years after losing his wife and son. “After that, I just gave up,” he said, waving away the memory with his hand. “The Voice reports on homelessness issues,” he explained, “like how people treat us and stuff.” 

Moving through the booths on Denver’s Capitol lawn was a reminder that disorganization and discord are unavoidable features of any truly democratic system, even within groups that mostly agree with one another. I overheard two women, holding nearly identical protest signs, arguing loudly and explicitly about whether Bill Clinton was a sex pest. There were at least four different tables for anti-establishment political organizations promoting essentially the same goals, and I felt itchy with the Deloitte-pilled urge to consolidate these kindred factions into one streamlined LLC for revolution. 

Caring about the future is messy and awkward and frustrating. The most surprising thing I’ve noticed about protests, rallies, and the unglamorous work of organizing people is that a sense of futility is often just as constant a presence as the sense of community. The temptation to disengage entirely can be powerful. Still, on my Lime bike ride home Monday afternoon, I felt something that was altogether absent from my early twenties: purpose.

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America’s Housing Paradox, Hiding in Plain Sight https://moneywithkatie.com/essays/americas-housing-paradox-hiding-in-plain-sight/ Mon, 18 Aug 2025 12:00:25 +0000 https://57818.showitstaging.com/?post_type=essays&p=2476 In June, Harvard University’s Joint Center for Housing Studies released a report that confirmed the obvious but unbearable reality that most aspiring homeowners recognized long ago: The median income cannot afford the median life. To meet traditional lending criteria for the middle-of-the-road home today, a prospective buyer would need to reliably pull down at least […]

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In June, Harvard University’s Joint Center for Housing Studies released a report that confirmed the obvious but unbearable reality that most aspiring homeowners recognized long ago: The median income cannot afford the median life. To meet traditional lending criteria for the middle-of-the-road home today, a prospective buyer would need to reliably pull down at least $126,700, an income that only 6 million of the nation’s 46 million renters claimed as of 2023. Maybe it’s a moot point—renting a starter home is an average of $908 per month cheaper than buying one in 49 of the 50 largest markets. Despite those savings, half of all renters are “cost-burdened,” spending more than 30% of their income on housing, with a quarter spending more than 50%, leaving virtually nothing for DoorDashing avocado lattes.

This state of affairs has created the rare bipartisan consensus that the US is tangled up in an unprecedentedly knotty housing crisis. It’s a situation that everyone from the libertarian Cato Institute to center-left pundits present as a classic supply-demand mismatch. Depending on your calculation method of choice, the US is allegedly short by anywhere from 1.5 million to 5.5 million housing units.

In housing parlance, a “shortage” can refer to either units themselves—for example, there are 10 families in this neighborhood and only seven houses—or it can refer to the inability of existing inventory to meet demand affordably. Maybe there are 10 families and 12 houses, but six of those houses have cold plunges and heated driveways and therefore cost more than most of those families can afford. Right now, the popular understanding of our national housing predicament applies the former interpretation. The data suggests the latter. 

A 2024 University of Kansas study found that between 2000 and 2020, housing production outpaced household growth by 3.3 million units. When I called Kirk McClure, one of the paper’s coauthors who’s been studying housing since the 1970s, he told me he had been skeptical of the prevailing narrative that there were too few homes, but “was convinced [he] must be wrong.” Originally, he and his research partner, Alex Schwartz, set out to map the shortage so they could study its causes. But a shortage wasn’t what they found. Of the 907 metropolitan and “micropolitan” areas they studied, only 23 demonstrated a lack of sufficient units. (McClure described rolling out these findings, which ran uncomfortably counter to the leading understanding of the problem, as “an uphill slog.”)

The real crux of the problem, McClure and Schwartz wrote, is “the mismatch between the distribution of incomes and the distribution of housing prices.” A tidbit in the Harvard Joint Center for Housing report seems to validate their view: In 2024, development of multifamily housing hit a four-decade high of 608,000 new units—but “much of the construction was at the upper end of the market.” 

Sufficient inventory or not, something clearly isn’t working. And because every market features an array of unique variables, it’s difficult to isolate cause and effect when comparing outcomes. The relatively lawless Houston, Texas, for instance, famously has no formal zoning laws, but it also boasts an expanse of more than 600 square miles with which to house its 2.4 million residents—more than 26 times as much land as Manhattan’s paltry 23 square miles for 1.6 million people. Because Manhattan houses 20x more people per square mile, contrasting the two cities’ housing results as a function of, say, their approaches to zoning is basically useless. Local labor markets, climate, and land itself are all stars in a constellation of factors that influences prices in any given zip code.

But one thing is certain: The crisis is national. In 1990, the median home cost less than 3x the median income in more than 70% of the largest metro areas. Today, there’s virtually nowhere that’s true.

There are a few leading theories for how we got here: First, there’s the narrative of chronic under-building that followed the financial mushroom cloud the American banking sector detonated over the world economy in 2008 (exacerbated by, apparently, a glut of unnecessary local ordinances and environmental regulations). Then, there’s the private equity firms and investment banks or, their shorthand, Blackstone. Finally, you’ve got the large millennial generation coming of age and trying to buy homes simultaneously. All of these stories are compelling, and all are, at least, half-true—but regardless of the explanation du jour, they all tend to aim the laser pointer at the same broad solution: compel the market to provide more houses. I’m a proponent of more building, but a narrow focus on constrained supply alone mistakes a symptom for the disease itself, leaving the underlying power dynamics and incentive structures unexamined. 

For one thing, McClure finds the fashionable perspective that zoning reform will increase supply dubious. He said it tends to move housing development around, rather than spawn more of it. “We will simply cause those rentals that would have been built in a largely multifamily area…to be dispersed more broadly across the markets, and some will find their ways into areas formerly zoned for single-family housing.” The housing industry is, he said, “a pretty well-oiled machine,” making development decisions based on vacancy rates. In other words, zoning has less influence on how much housing is built, and more on where housing is built. 

“There are benefits to be gained from [zoning reform],” he said, “but we’re not going to see a price effect, because we’re not going to build any more units.” While I’m hesitant to draw sweeping conclusions from Prince’s hometown, Minneapolis experimented with eliminating single-family zoning in 2019 and the results were modest—a net gain of 255 housing units in the following 2.5 years for a population of around 430,000 people. A 2023 Urban Institute study of 1,136 cities found that loosening restrictions was associated with a 0.8% increase in housing supply within three to nine years, and predominantly “for the units at the higher end of the rent price distribution.” (“We find no statistically significant evidence that additional lower-cost units became available or became less expensive in the years following reforms,” the authors wrote.) It’s easy to miss what the zoning debate takes for granted: that more inventory of any kind is the straightforward solution, and all that’s left to do is thumb-wrestle about the best way to make the market provide it. 

Housing occupies a unique lane in our economy. It’s the only commodity that is both necessary to sustain life and, simultaneously, a speculative asset expected to make its owner rich. In the US, it also happens to be unusually illustrative of the way our cultural norms impact our ability to assess solutions clearly. The existing emphasis on increasing supply conceals a critical paradox. Jerusalem Demsas summarized it perfectly:

At the core of American housing policy is a secret hiding in plain sight: Homeownership works for some because it cannot work for all. If we want to make housing affordable for everyone, then it needs to be cheap and widely available. And if we want that housing to act as a wealth-building vehicle, home values have to increase significantly over time. How do we ensure that housing is both appreciating in value for homeowners but cheap enough for all would-be homeowners to buy in? We can’t.

As long as policymakers, buoyed by a homeownership-obsessed electorate who vote accordingly, are unwilling to confront this fundamental tension, we’ll be limited to affordability solutions that must teeter along an impossible tightrope. 

The supply-side critique—which chiefly targets development obstructionists like municipal governments staffed by climate-obsessed liberal scolds and “NIMBYs,” or existing homeowners who don’t want their property values to decline—argues that removing such obstacles will unleash a wave of building, thereby solving our affordability crisis. But setting aside any evidence to the contrary and assuming that the evaporation of city codes and rich ex-hippies’ grievances would have the intended effect, play that scenario out: The moment it begins working too well—when enough homes are built to achieve the purported goal of a meaningful slide in prices—you’re faced with the opposite crisis, a swath of middle-class homeowners whose primary source of wealth is losing value every year. (This will be especially relevant for those who almost certainly overpaid after 2021 and would be treading upstream for years if they ended up underwater on their mortgages.)

Rich San Franciscans with “IN THIS HOUSE WE BELIEVE” yard signs are the typical NIMBY avatar—rarely a sympathetic group for either political party. But this is hardly representative of the average American homeowner. Homeowners as a class are significantly wealthier than renters (as the National Association of Realtors loves to remind us), but it’s unfair to depict the group as a monolith that’s perennially squatted in the empty lot next door, elbows splayed from a defensive crouch, boxing out construction for a few extra points of appreciation. Nearly a quarter of all homeowners are cost-burdened like the renters, spending more than 30% of their income on their mortgage, taxes, and insurance. Because of the very incentives Demsas describes, US culture and policymaking alike have, for decades, marshaled generations of people—most of whom are not Bay Area-based B2B software company founders—onto a one-way street where each mortgage payment supposedly represented another paver on the yellow brick road to guaranteed long-term stability in an unstable system. When home equity is excluded, the median net worth in the US is more than halved.

It’s a Catch-22: If you produce only a moderate amount, prices don’t soften enough to make housing meaningfully more affordable for prospective buyers, and those who already own capital are more likely to see (and act on) an investment opportunity. If you somehow manage to convince private-market developers to create “extreme supply”—enough to dwarf demand and substantially impact affordability—you risk trapping existing owners in mortgages that are now larger than the values of their homes in a country where most working people’s largest asset is—you guessed it—their home.

Ignoring the conflicts of interest that decades of US policymaking have created makes pushing for more supply (let alone the right type of supply) an eternally Sisyphean task; a boulder we’re doomed to shoulder up the mountainside forever while quibbling over sidewalk ordinances and praying we can strike the exact right balance to avoid tipping either group into peril. 

So if there isn’t a true “shortage,” why are houses so expensiveright now? Since just 2019, home values have jumped by 60%. To put this into terms your average Zillow aficionado can immediately appreciate, a home that cost $200,000 six years ago would now list for $320,000. The sharpest increase—a 38% jump from a median sale price of $317,100 in Q2 2020 to $437,700 just two years later—maps closely with the pandemic-era quantitative easing. At the risk of violating the Yoda-like rule of armchair analysis that “causation does not correlation equal,” during the same period, the M2 money supply surged by about 38% as well, from around $16 trillion to $22 trillion. 

The relationship between monetary policy and asset prices is more complex than this coincidence might suggest, but to ignore its role outright in favor of overweighting alternate explanations—like the explosion of post-pandemic millennial household formation—seems like sidestepping the elephant in the formal living room. After all, the rate of household formation has been slowing for decades—growth in the period between 2010–2020 was the lowest ever recorded

Even a bunch of late bloomers synchronously exiting their parents’ basements stage left carries less plausible explanatory power than the reality that a flood of new money pooled in assets and pushed the prices of everything from stocks to two-bedroom condos to high-water marks. This will always be the unavoidable, if unfortunate, consequence of treating housing as an investment, stranding us to frantically search for other levers—like indirect, trickle-down manipulation of supply—to offset the fundamental truth of our incompatible goals. Lofty stock price growth that’s disconnected from any real increase in value is a problem, too, but with one key difference: We don’t host our dinner parties inside index funds. When stocks are overpriced and every dollar buys fewer shares, we can simply buy less until values rightsize—but you don’t stop needing somewhere to live just because rents rose by 20%. 

Because of the inherent tension in America’s housing incentive structure,maintaining this precarious balance will continue to require ongoing careful intervention. You may remember Vice President Harris’s campaign proposal of a new $40 billion tax credit for developers who build homes for first-time homebuyers. This subsidy, borrowing the logic of a public-private partnership, was intended to “facilitate” the construction of a stunning 3 million houses; the implication being, of course, that developers are currently insufficiently incentivized to build the type of housing we need. 

But developers, landlords, and real estate investors are already disproportionate beneficiaries of the US tax code—from the ability to deduct depreciation to the famed 1031 exchange, the perks of profiting from housing are plentiful. Even renter-focused benefits like housing vouchers end up accruing to owners: The $46 billion in emergency rental assistance funds of 2021 had the practical effect of a capital subsidy, with tenants acting as a mere pass-through entity for checks which first visited landlords on the journey to their final destination, the banks the landlords were paying. Hopefully it goes without saying: Preventing people from being evicted is necessary in any society that claims with a straight face to have a conscience. The issue is not that tenants were supported, but that in our current paradigm, “tenant support” essentially amounts to welfare for capital, which has the self-defeating net effect of making housing even more attractive to people who want to make money from it instead of live in it. 

Government intervention is an indispensable fixture of an arrangement in which something every human needs must also double as a speculative piggy bank. The visible hand which intermittently juices or softens demand uses four of its five fingers in service of underwriting the “line go up” philosophy of American home values, so it’s tempting to look at this state of affairs and deduce that government intervention writ large is the problem. The better question is not about “how much” government we want, but which goal and whose interests do we want that government to serve, and how directly?

Historically, housing in the US has been the primary way regular people could build equity as a byproduct of living their lives. Rather than designing a system in which shelter was treated as a public good and the path to building equity was instead linked to, say, productive labor—in which work would directly generate ownership in the economy over time—we tied equity for the masses to the ownership of unproductive land and the deteriorating structures we build on it. 

At this point, the reality that the median home costs something like “five times median income” is as much a commentary on income as it is on homes. Or, as McClure told me: “We have too many people whose incomes do not permit them to enter the market, even though the units are there.” Understanding the dynamics that are creating the outcomes we don’t want is necessary for resolving them, because right now, “The belief that we have a shortage is causing people to change policies, and not for the better.” Looking for solutions to affordable housing without addressing or even acknowledging underlying trends like class dynamics, income disparity, and the conflicting simultaneous goals of US housing policy means we will never cure this disease, only continue to poorly manage it.

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